Meet The Men’s Rights Activist Who Left An Ohio University Student Too Scared To Leave Her House

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[penlessej]

I was the victum of being acused of rape when nothing of the sort happened. I almost lost my job and I lost many friends in the process. Immediately when it happened I was labelled as a bad person and I was guilty without even saying a word about the whole affair.

After a very lengthy investigation that effected my day to day life it was found that she was clearly lying and the charges were never laid. But nothing happened to her at all. And when I even hinted at wanting to go down a legal path for retribution, I was shot down because it wouldn't look good for me to go after a victim. So even after this whole affair, she is still known as the victim.

I do not know if I agree with how rash Mr. Nolan is with this, but I agree in principle with what he is doing. All of this talk of rape culture is being driven by feminists who give no regard for what men actually have to say in this process.

[chaya]

I do not know if I agree with how rash Mr. Nolan is with this

[penlessej]

Okay, I do not agree with it at all. He shouldn't be smearing an innocent person. That isn't any different than him getting treated badly by the law.

[chaya]

[wrestlingdog]

Perfect.

[sweetemerald513]

I'm sorry that happened to you, but the number of women that falsely report rape is very low compared to the number of actual reports of rape. I'm not saying that men can't be victims of patriarchy (they very well can be and are), and I'm not saying that there's never a possibility that the woman is lying. But rape culture is very, VERY real and very serious and dangerous. So many women are afraid to report their rape because they're afraid they'll be blamed or that they won't be believed. And the effects of being raped and not being believed are far, far worse (psychologically, emotionally, physically) than the effects of being falsely accused of rape and not being believed. Don't dismiss the reality of rape culture and the suffering of rape victims because of a personal experience you've had.

[penlessej]

I do not believe in the rape culture to be honest. I think it is a narrow minded approach to a real problem that we have in our society. We have a problem with alcholism, drug abuse, sexuality and self control on campuses across North America. These are all contributers to the so-called rape culture, but they get cut out when we just focus on the rape.

[doverz]

Can you clarify please?? Because, to me, it sounds like you're placing a lot of blame on the females who are raped.

[penlessej]

I will clarify because I do not want to do that at all

[chaya]

young men are taught that women are objects for our desire.

You can see pictures of girls doing regular activies in yoga pants that are taken and posted without their knowledge.

You realize you're describing rape culture, right?

What do you think rape culture means?

[penlessej]

The problem goes beyond just that though, that is my issue. I think that this whole rape culture is too narrow.

[chaya]

Again, what do you think rape culture means?

[penlessej]

It means just focusing on the development of men and how that effects their perception of women and sexuality. But the problem of raping on campuses goes well, well beyond that.

[chaya]

Come back when you've educated yourself on the terms you're trying to use.

[penlessej]

Are you kidding me? No one has defined the term rape culture. It is actually pretty ambigious.

Come back when you grow up and understand that the world isn`t black and white.

[chaya]

No one has defined the term rape culture

Oh fuck I'm sorry D: I didn't realize your internet doesn't have Google or Wikipedia, that's totally my bad.