If 2010 adopted a big gay slogan, surely it would be "It Gets Better." And if my email inbox is an accurate indicator, lesbian and bisexual women really want to believe that. Almost every day I get a message from an AfterEllen.com reader asking me if it really does get better. And if yes, when? And if yes, how
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And it wasn't like I was ever thinking about sex, even as a teenager, because I was Baptist and so I knew thinking about sex was the gateway action to punching Jesus in the face. I wasn't one of those closeted gays sneaking peeks in locker rooms. Like every other evangelical Christian teen I knew, I didn't even want to see my own body naked, so ashamed was I that it had rebelled against me and grown boobs (the evil body part whose sole purpose was to cause my brothers in Christ to stumble!).
Oh god. Yes. I went to a Baptist elementary school and it was DRILLED into our heads the various evil kinds of outfits girls could wear - skirts above the knee, tank tops without shirts underneath, anything in a v-neck, and, heaven forbid, spaghetti strap tank tops. We had to stay pure so as not to lead the boys into sin. I remember very vividly, in grade 7, asking why the boys were allowed to wear sweatpants, then - didn't that call attention to their 'area' because of the way they sat on them ( ... )
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That reminds me of the part in Persepolis where their professor (?) is reminding the class of the codes of modesty that girls must preserve, and Marjane gets up and asks why girls have to drape themselves from head to toe to prevent the men from staring, and yet the boys can wear jeans that are "Practically painted on". Wish I could find that scene on youtube. Marjane is so kickass.
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Sigh.
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