love yourself
Like a stained-glass window in a Gothic cathedral, the many colors and components of who you are right now have combined to create something quite breathtaking. You are completing a growth phase; you're moving away from confusion and towards clarity and simplicity. Whether you realize it or not, you have created a strong personal philosophy that is informing your choices. Congratulations on your progress. Do not fear memories of what you've been through.
I'm a beautiful stained-glass window. You have no idea how special this metaphor is to me.