How you know that a relationship is the "real thing" is when you do something really, really stupid and it turns out to be okay anyway. You will never know if the relationship is "for keeps" until you have a big, crying fight and throw furniture and say horrible, hysterical things and then realize you were totally wrong and then - the next day - you both still want to go to breakfast and hang out.
Who wants to live their life like they can never make a mistake? Geesh. That isn't life - that's prison.
I have to agree 100% with K. Doing stupid things is part of a relationship and knowing that you will do stupid things from time to time is something you'll have to accept. If you (or he) can't accept that, then it probably won't work out. I've done a lot of stupid things in my relationship with my wife. Luckily for me, she has always been able to see THROUGH the stupid things to the real me. I'm glad you're moving on and I really hope things work out for you -- good luck!
I think that he means that forcing yourself to be a good "b/f" all of the time would be a prison in itself. Instead you should be who you are. Even of it means throwing chairs at each other.
If you can't throw chairs and scream at each other occasionally, what fun is that? If you feel like you have to "be good" or "perfect" - then, geesh, I'd never make it. Be YOU!
Also, anybody who can't see what a doll you are doesn't really deserve the time of day, right? Right!
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Who wants to live their life like they can never make a mistake? Geesh. That isn't life - that's prison.
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But who knows maybe I'm wrong...
But good luck, hope the relationship works....
Later. :D
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Also, anybody who can't see what a doll you are doesn't really deserve the time of day, right? Right!
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