Personality crisis?!
I think I might have grown up funnily.
I'm increasingly concern about my tendency to...well not lie, but say whatever would please the person I'm talking to. The fact that I actually believe what I say that moment is what makes me more confused about whether I'm actually saying it to make them feel better (which is one of the primary goals as I hate seeing people upset) or do I actually mean it.
I mean after someone has asked me something, I may think it's a huge butt problem in an after thought, but at that precise moment, when someone is looking at me for confirmation - I honestly don't think it's too big a problem and it's nothing that really bothers me or that I accept it as the way it is. And the fact that they realized it, surely means there will be improvement or they'll be more careful about it.
The only way to explain this is that I try to the best in the situation even though it's bound for a disaster?!
aRgh. Am confused.
What is the right balance of telling people that a problem is worth taking notes of but not saying it in a way that alienates them. I mean everyone has faults right? What makes one fault bigger than another? Because no one's right forever except God himself.
I'm increasingly concern about my tendency to...well not lie, but say whatever would please the person I'm talking to. The fact that I actually believe what I say that moment is what makes me more confused about whether I'm actually saying it to make them feel better (which is one of the primary goals as I hate seeing people upset) or do I actually mean it.
I mean after someone has asked me something, I may think it's a huge butt problem in an after thought, but at that precise moment, when someone is looking at me for confirmation - I honestly don't think it's too big a problem and it's nothing that really bothers me or that I accept it as the way it is. And the fact that they realized it, surely means there will be improvement or they'll be more careful about it.
The only way to explain this is that I try to the best in the situation even though it's bound for a disaster?!
aRgh. Am confused.
What is the right balance of telling people that a problem is worth taking notes of but not saying it in a way that alienates them. I mean everyone has faults right? What makes one fault bigger than another? Because no one's right forever except God himself.