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Anyways so yeah this is a continuance of my last entry with the IM conversation...
After I angrily put up my away message she called and i was really upset still and so without me asking her she drove up here an hour before her date with Mitch to make sure I was ok :) She got here at ten minutes to five when her date was at six at some really nice restraunt... she was all dressed up which made me cringe a little at the thought that she'd put all that effort in to her looks for some one else that she supposedly wasn't interested in. Although I still fixed her eye makeup for her so she'd look super pretty on her date cause she already looked pretty but thats not the point..... She doesn't even understand that she's doing she's doing the exact same thing. When i pointed that out to her she said it wasn't the same thing and that it was completely different because she hadn't told me that she'd never hang out with mitch. I pointed out that i had never said that and then it was that i'd made it sound like i'd never hang out with kayla or brent.
What she doesn't get is that I told her reasons it wouldn't work out/things that bothered me about them so she wouldn't be as jealous and she'd know she had nothing to worry about i never said i'm never gonna hang out with this person i never said they were bad people in fact i believe i said that while it bothered me that kayla was so forward she was cute and a few other compliments. I pointed out that the problem was that she wants to believe that i don't like her at all as a person and would never hang out with her. So when i try to explain that i'm just going on a date and that doesn't mean they have a chance with me she asks me whats the point of even going though and so I said basically, well then whats the point of you going on your date with mitch he doesn't have a chance yet you're still going on a date with me she tried to convince me it was different because she didn't bitch about him to me and then go hang out with him... i brought up the fact that she had in fact bitched about him and restated what she'd said about him ... in fact now that i think about it I believe she said the only way she could see herself going on a date with him was if he didn't laugh because evidently his laugh is so embarrassing. When i made both of these points she gave me this really sheepish smile like I know you're right but i'm not gonna say it but I knew i'd finally, after three days of this argument, gotten the point across... lol she looks so cute when she knows she's wrong and doesn't want to admit it.
Anyways after all that i finally had to practically shove her out the door at 5:45 when it takes 45 minutes to get to the restraunt from here and she still had to get gas
Grr... it's freaking burning up in here and my fan decided to kick the bucket... I swear i'm cooking alive
After I angrily put up my away message she called and i was really upset still and so without me asking her she drove up here an hour before her date with Mitch to make sure I was ok :) She got here at ten minutes to five when her date was at six at some really nice restraunt... she was all dressed up which made me cringe a little at the thought that she'd put all that effort in to her looks for some one else that she supposedly wasn't interested in. Although I still fixed her eye makeup for her so she'd look super pretty on her date cause she already looked pretty but thats not the point..... She doesn't even understand that she's doing she's doing the exact same thing. When i pointed that out to her she said it wasn't the same thing and that it was completely different because she hadn't told me that she'd never hang out with mitch. I pointed out that i had never said that and then it was that i'd made it sound like i'd never hang out with kayla or brent.
What she doesn't get is that I told her reasons it wouldn't work out/things that bothered me about them so she wouldn't be as jealous and she'd know she had nothing to worry about i never said i'm never gonna hang out with this person i never said they were bad people in fact i believe i said that while it bothered me that kayla was so forward she was cute and a few other compliments. I pointed out that the problem was that she wants to believe that i don't like her at all as a person and would never hang out with her. So when i try to explain that i'm just going on a date and that doesn't mean they have a chance with me she asks me whats the point of even going though and so I said basically, well then whats the point of you going on your date with mitch he doesn't have a chance yet you're still going on a date with me she tried to convince me it was different because she didn't bitch about him to me and then go hang out with him... i brought up the fact that she had in fact bitched about him and restated what she'd said about him ... in fact now that i think about it I believe she said the only way she could see herself going on a date with him was if he didn't laugh because evidently his laugh is so embarrassing. When i made both of these points she gave me this really sheepish smile like I know you're right but i'm not gonna say it but I knew i'd finally, after three days of this argument, gotten the point across... lol she looks so cute when she knows she's wrong and doesn't want to admit it.
Anyways after all that i finally had to practically shove her out the door at 5:45 when it takes 45 minutes to get to the restraunt from here and she still had to get gas
Grr... it's freaking burning up in here and my fan decided to kick the bucket... I swear i'm cooking alive