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[brwn_id_brunett]

So I'm really new at this... but I need a bit of advice from whomever can help out...
BG: I'm turning 17 next month, he's 16 (no biggy)... I'm from Canada, he's from the UK... There's nothing wrong with that right?? Altho we go through a total seperation when we don't talk to eachother (once school starts it's gonna be hard -_-) We've started

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[wife_and_mom]

My husband and I talked online for approximately 4 years online, on the phone and by writing letters to eachother before we ever began being a couple. Nine months after we got together, we decided to meet. For some people, meeting sooner rather than later is best, that way you can make sure you aren't wasting your time on something that isn't what you thought it was. Some people prefer to get a strong communication bond by talking online/on the phone for awhile before they meet

[wunderaliceland]

Your story gives me hope. Me and my guy aren't officially together because we've tried it twice before..but we've kept in touch for three years and love each other very much. We plan to meet soon and if it goes off well we will start making plans to be together(Not an issue, as Im 22 and he's 26). I hope that after three years of feeling this way..once we meet it wont go away.

[wife_and_mom]

After feeling that way for three years, I would say that when you do meet the feelings won't go away, instead they will get much much stronger. Goodluck. :)

[wunderaliceland]

Thanks! Im so glad to know its working for you :)

[sarry777]

It's up to you. If you're ready, go for it. I was with Matt for over 3 years before meeting, and we were friends for a year prior to that. We were going to wait another year, for my senior prom, but my mother offered our house for the summer if he had the ability to make it out here. We had astounding support from our parents, and his sent him here for $500

[kissintheclouds]

you should wait till you totally sure you are ready. Me and my SO meet almost exactly one year after we met online but honeslty we are a strange couple we joked about getting married only 3 weeks afrer we met and feel in love only 2 weeks after we met. The joke became serious 1 month later and we moved up to webcams about that time also. I didn't have a webcam at first also but you can always get picts other ways to send to him. I suggest honeslty you buy a webcam and try out talking a few months this way with him it helps to you understand the other person more. I didn't have a webcam at first also but I had a digital camera that can do video conferanceing all I had to do was buy an ac adpator so there was enough power for it to work.
I didn't consider meeting up with him untill many months after we started to chat face to face and became more comfy around eachother ^_^ good luck!