I'll guess I'll just speak for myself in this response. I never meant to offend you or anyone, really. I didn't have a problem with the two of you going out, and I was happy if you two were happy. It's just since you two started dating I never got to see either of you because you were always in Savannah's room with the door closed. I did try to hang out with you more than you probably thought. I know we had food together, went to the Kowal Cabin and to Mackinaw, and played games, but I do have a bad memory for negative things like this and I can't really remember what all happened or how it happened.
I know have said things that were critical of people's actions, and for the life of me I can't remember most of the stuff I've said about anyone over the years, but I do know I tend to be cranky about people's actions. I don't know exactly what you are referring to, but everyone has their pros and cons. If the person is generally good natured then I can get over or ignore flaws, but I still might talk about them. (You should hear what I could say about Erica! (tee hee))
I'm not sure if your message was out of spite, or if you were getting your feelings out to mend the past. I think everyone you listed still cares about you two, it's just some actions of yours and theirs (ours?) have been misinterpreted or taken to heart when they were just comments.
As for living with Erica, it seems that's the trend that happens to people when they live with each other: Little things build up overtime and can end relationships. I do however think your comments to Erica and everyone on your list were a little rash. Many of these might of been our feelings at the time or stupid actions, but no one is perfect. We all have flaws and get angry or upset about current or past issues.
I've probably already said too much for everyone, but if you want, feel free to call me if you want to talk about this further. LiveJournal probably isn't the best place to air our dirty laundry-- I still consider both of you as my friends even if you don't consider me one. I've had too much fun with both of you to throw everything away.
Re: SorryonijujitsuSeptember 21 2006, 05:17:00 UTC
Thanks Alex, I appreciate your response.
We were a bit distant, some of that because we were avoiding you and erica, but some of it was also because we just like spending time alone together.
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I posted here for both reasons. I wanted to get this off my chest and find a way past it, but I also wanted everyone in the letter to know exactly how I feel about them.
All in all, I don't harbor a lot of anger towards you Alex, I guess if you mean what you replied then I still consider you a very good friend.
I know have said things that were critical of people's actions, and for the life of me I can't remember most of the stuff I've said about anyone over the years, but I do know I tend to be cranky about people's actions. I don't know exactly what you are referring to, but everyone has their pros and cons. If the person is generally good natured then I can get over or ignore flaws, but I still might talk about them. (You should hear what I could say about Erica! (tee hee))
I'm not sure if your message was out of spite, or if you were getting your feelings out to mend the past. I think everyone you listed still cares about you two, it's just some actions of yours and theirs (ours?) have been misinterpreted or taken to heart when they were just comments.
As for living with Erica, it seems that's the trend that happens to people when they live with each other: Little things build up overtime and can end relationships. I do however think your comments to Erica and everyone on your list were a little rash. Many of these might of been our feelings at the time or stupid actions, but no one is perfect. We all have flaws and get angry or upset about current or past issues.
I've probably already said too much for everyone, but if you want, feel free to call me if you want to talk about this further. LiveJournal probably isn't the best place to air our dirty laundry-- I still consider both of you as my friends even if you don't consider me one. I've had too much fun with both of you to throw everything away.
Alex
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We were a bit distant, some of that because we were avoiding you and erica, but some of it was also because we just like spending time alone together.
:>
I posted here for both reasons. I wanted to get this off my chest and find a way past it, but I also wanted everyone in the letter to know exactly how I feel about them.
All in all, I don't harbor a lot of anger towards you Alex, I guess if you mean what you replied then I still consider you a very good friend.
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