Mar 14, 2005 00:26
I think I would like to clear up a couple things here.
1. I don't know why anyone would believe I would take sides with Sam just because she is my g/f. Most people know me to be a very good person at stepping back and not taking sides. At least I hope that people know that. I would never defend Sam just because she is my g/f.
2. Nobody influenced me to disklike anyone. I don't know why everyone is ragging at Sam about things. Would I have said them plenty of times before.
3. As for Heather. When you and Danny first got together I didn't like you. And until you started living with Danny at the apartment you were ok. But since then I have not really liked you. I tolerate all that you do because you are Dan's g/f and he is my best friend.
4. I know stuff has happened to Heather in her life, but she is not the only one that has had a bad life. I know plenty of people who have had bad lives, myself included. But, here the biggy. It's no excuse to blab it around and make it excuse. I've lost count of the people who use the problems in their lifes to make up their excuses for all the things that they shouldn't do. It's just that. An excuse.
5. As to Sam coming and living with me, let's see. I lost count of the number of times that danny and heather said that sam should come live with us. And Heather told me countless times that she both wished and would love for sam to come live with us. Not counting that she was my g/f and was going to be living in my room.
6. Heather goes on and on about how lazy that sam was, but what she doesnt' say is how sam cleaned up the house everyday up until the time that Heather allowed Mathiu and Lovick to live in our living room. If you think Sam was upset with that. You have no idea how upset I was. I lived through that shit before with them and I was less the happy with the situation. Even then she continued to clean up after them after I told them more then once to keep the living room clean and to clean up after themselves.
7. Concerning the apartment as it is. When me and Sam left. We hadn't eaten at the apartment for almost a week. And any trash we had we were putting in our trashcan. Any dishes and trash left at the apartment are not ours because we didn't even use any dishes after we did our last load of them. And of course I went over to drop off mail at the aparment today and what do I see but a total pigsty. I don't know how food on plates all over the floor can constitute as clean. Well at least it's not on the floor I think, But then I couldn't really see the floor with all the crap all over it.
8. I don't need any replies to this. I'm tired of explaining the same old things over and over and over. Sam has already stopped replying to any tantrums and so have I. We have both agreed that it is pointless to try and discuss something with someon who continuly has to sell a sob story to everyone else in hope of some sad sympathy. We do not believe in broadcasting our problems to elicite attention from the world at large. For those that do I've got the worlds smallest violin playing a sad sad song just for you. Oh wait. I broke it. *shrugs*
9. And to Dave if you read this. In some ways I feel sorry for you. Your a great guy and I always appreciated your company. I lost count the number of times that Heather was always saying that she didn't like coming over that you were manipluative and that we should watch our backs around you. Plus she was always saying that she could make you anything that she wanted to and then go off laughing. I can't understand why a person as cool as you would let yourself be used by her. Why anyone could. But I still I respect you and hope that one day you will open your eyes as see her as she trully is.
10. Thank you all. If I don't see you, Good Morning, good afternoon and good night!