Our fair sex
I'm not griping per se, but I feel it necessary to illuminate some very strange things I've noticed about guys. All kinds of guys are attractive though in different ways. I myself like a well-shouldered medium built guy, possibly with some scruff, preferably with some grasp of the culture I subscribe to. I also like them tall(er than me is incredibly hot).
--However, this is all a general outline as I'm seeing a guy who is not only shorter than me, but of slight build( he's got a groovy beard). The difference in our appearance is the gist of my entry here; why in god's name do guys seem to only go after their clones? Are so many guys so insecure with their lives that they need a doppelganger to reassure themselves? My heterosexual amigos for all their flaws are really inspirational because for one, they don't want someone exactly like them, for another they'd be sort of appalled to be confronted with a woman who was identical to them.
--One friend who I'll refer to as Minnesota (really his name is Dakota) has been pursuing this wild party girl who'd rather hug a tree than kill a fly; while Minnesota is quiet, reserved, and nerdy as all sin. This sort of (attempted)pairing doesn't seem to occur in our community.Maybe I am of limited experience on the subject. Although I can observe myself I've never dated guys that were like me, hell, you seek your other half right? Not a mirror to beat off onto. If your date a guy who is into everything you are then what the fuck do you do all day? Differences of opinion and interest promote personal development. I don't know about the rest of you fellas but I like the idea of growing into a new person, I can only get better and I'm willing to bet the same is for most people.
--However, this is all a general outline as I'm seeing a guy who is not only shorter than me, but of slight build( he's got a groovy beard). The difference in our appearance is the gist of my entry here; why in god's name do guys seem to only go after their clones? Are so many guys so insecure with their lives that they need a doppelganger to reassure themselves? My heterosexual amigos for all their flaws are really inspirational because for one, they don't want someone exactly like them, for another they'd be sort of appalled to be confronted with a woman who was identical to them.
--One friend who I'll refer to as Minnesota (really his name is Dakota) has been pursuing this wild party girl who'd rather hug a tree than kill a fly; while Minnesota is quiet, reserved, and nerdy as all sin. This sort of (attempted)pairing doesn't seem to occur in our community.Maybe I am of limited experience on the subject. Although I can observe myself I've never dated guys that were like me, hell, you seek your other half right? Not a mirror to beat off onto. If your date a guy who is into everything you are then what the fuck do you do all day? Differences of opinion and interest promote personal development. I don't know about the rest of you fellas but I like the idea of growing into a new person, I can only get better and I'm willing to bet the same is for most people.