dude. seriously.
my stalker finally reappeared. acting...awkwardly snobby/hasty. hard to explain but his presence weirds me out.
can't just order his goddamn coffee though, waits on the siiide of the cart instead of the designated ordering location and waits till i stare at him expectantly for some good seconds before going "iced coffee" like i should have seen him and started whipping it right up with a smile and then spilled all my personal life on a platter for him like he wants and handed it to him, maybe over coffee sometime, that way he can get in my pants AND my mind, simultaneous-like.
so, this time 'round, aside from asking how i'm doing in a way that hopes for details, he offers a job. Won't really tell me where or what I'd be doing, just that it's "in the service" which at first makes me think he is a military recruiter, but really means 'in the service industry."
he's vague too, in that "You won't be a waitress, but if after a month or so you like it you could be." Where is this place, i am obviously humoring him. even if the job was grand, as vague as he is being (he must be trying to get me to be a server/escort in a speakeasy underneath the scientology temple at the rate he's going), and the fact that he probably works there means a big fat "not interested" on my part. which i think i made pretty clear because,
A. i have a job
B. i make great money as is, without doing much work
and C. um, duh, this job is about as convenient as can be location/hours wise.
all of this i made clear. VERBALLY, EXPLICITLY. just like i did about not wanting to talk to him about my personal life OR have coffee with him (presumably to talk about my personal life). the problem is, this guy is nosy, persistent, and pushy. A concoction of qualities i do not want it any relation, friendship, customer, or otherwise.
He proceeds to roll his eyes at me and ask how much do i make then.
I'm not at liberty to say.
He gets huffy, like he has some sort of contempt for me and my choice to not gobble up his job offer right quick.
I say no. no. no. and he concludes with "Well, why don't you sleep on it, give it some thought, yadayada, and let me know and I'll get you in for an interview this week!"
um... wait, i just said NO! hear you me. I think i am being as clear as possible in my nonverbal AND verbal communication with this kid.
he is ticking me off. gives me the creeps. if he keeps pushing i am really going to rip him a new one and tell him not to come back. seriously.
ALSO.
the thermostat doesn't work, so heat won't come on, though the pilot light is on.
all our power went out last night (except the fridge and entry light) as flipping the breakers didn't fix so i assume we blew something. emergency guy never came or called. it was cold, dark, and the internet i needed for homework was out (the day it finally started working again) because the modem had no power.
i am going nuts. life isn't working right.
can't just order his goddamn coffee though, waits on the siiide of the cart instead of the designated ordering location and waits till i stare at him expectantly for some good seconds before going "iced coffee" like i should have seen him and started whipping it right up with a smile and then spilled all my personal life on a platter for him like he wants and handed it to him, maybe over coffee sometime, that way he can get in my pants AND my mind, simultaneous-like.
so, this time 'round, aside from asking how i'm doing in a way that hopes for details, he offers a job. Won't really tell me where or what I'd be doing, just that it's "in the service" which at first makes me think he is a military recruiter, but really means 'in the service industry."
he's vague too, in that "You won't be a waitress, but if after a month or so you like it you could be." Where is this place, i am obviously humoring him. even if the job was grand, as vague as he is being (he must be trying to get me to be a server/escort in a speakeasy underneath the scientology temple at the rate he's going), and the fact that he probably works there means a big fat "not interested" on my part. which i think i made pretty clear because,
A. i have a job
B. i make great money as is, without doing much work
and C. um, duh, this job is about as convenient as can be location/hours wise.
all of this i made clear. VERBALLY, EXPLICITLY. just like i did about not wanting to talk to him about my personal life OR have coffee with him (presumably to talk about my personal life). the problem is, this guy is nosy, persistent, and pushy. A concoction of qualities i do not want it any relation, friendship, customer, or otherwise.
He proceeds to roll his eyes at me and ask how much do i make then.
I'm not at liberty to say.
He gets huffy, like he has some sort of contempt for me and my choice to not gobble up his job offer right quick.
I say no. no. no. and he concludes with "Well, why don't you sleep on it, give it some thought, yadayada, and let me know and I'll get you in for an interview this week!"
um... wait, i just said NO! hear you me. I think i am being as clear as possible in my nonverbal AND verbal communication with this kid.
he is ticking me off. gives me the creeps. if he keeps pushing i am really going to rip him a new one and tell him not to come back. seriously.
ALSO.
the thermostat doesn't work, so heat won't come on, though the pilot light is on.
all our power went out last night (except the fridge and entry light) as flipping the breakers didn't fix so i assume we blew something. emergency guy never came or called. it was cold, dark, and the internet i needed for homework was out (the day it finally started working again) because the modem had no power.
i am going nuts. life isn't working right.