the perfect boy list...
so... being down in Florida, away from otherwise obious (cannot spell) distractions and misguided directions... I have come to picture my perfect man... my prince charming if you will... and I've decided to come up with a list of everything he has to be... and things might be added and taken away as time goes by... but as of right now...
he has to be attractive... i have to be attracted to him in the kind of way where I look at him and understand why everyone thinks I'm lucky... but have an amazing personality as well... someone who can make my day better... laughs in all the approiate places... and is smart enough to carry on a conversation or an arguement.
he has to make me melt with just one look... someone who can look deep in my eyes and touch my soul... someone who can give me butterflies and goosebumps without ever touching me.
Speaking of touching... his touch has to make me shiver... make me dream about his touch... but know that he is only touching me that way... be completly crazy about me... enough to only be with me... even when we're far away... he has to know all my places... and has to find them himself
His kisses have to have that spark... the kind of kisses that give someone butterflies... the kind that make you almost want it to stop... but could never want to even consider stopping them... not every kiss should be like that... but those special ones... and kissing... there should be times when kissing is just that... no greater expectations... no greater goal... just kissing for the sake of kissing... not saying he shouldn't be good sexually... he should be fun... and great... and up for a little experimenting every now and then to spice it up... but he should know that it's not easy to get me into bed... and accept that.
He has to see beautiful fireworks (like Wishes at Magic Kingdom lol) and know that magic exists in the world... and get excited and happy... or at least humor me when I do. He has to behave like a child at times... enjoy amusement parks... take me on dates to the park and push me on the swings... cuddle me in cue lines... not afraid about a little PDA every now and then... not afraid to show me off... kiss me in front of his friends... every new years eve... and under every misoltoe we ever pass... even in the middle of summer... but we're not going to be one of those sickenly sweet couples who kiss every two seconds... say I love you every five... and snuggle all the time... we need space... a life of our own... friends of our own... and our respective boys night and girls night.
I don't want someone who goes to strip clubs... wastes his life away with drugs and alcohol... I mean I'm down for a good party... but that can't be his life... he can't ever cheat... cause this heart isn't forgiving anymore...
Someone who could never even think of making me cry... and if I ever do I want him to wipe away the tears... and vow to never cause them again... I want someone who knows that we'll fight and is ok with that... because making up is the best part... someone who will leave me notes or texts saying that he missed me every once in awhile... someone who will call me beautiful and really make me believe it... someone who supports me through everything... even crazy ideas like moving to disney world... and quitting school to go to hair dressing school... someone who is proud of me... proud of whoever I become... someone who completes me... and makes sure I reach my highest for every dream...
Someone who'll let me cook for them... and enjoys all kinds of music... knows the words to loser pop songs... and loves nights in with a stack of movies and a blanket on the couch... but also loves nights out... dinner... shows... movies... enjoys broadway... or at least pretends to for me... someone who will love to bring me around to meet his whole family... loves long drives to nowhere in particular... someone who will love and accept my family... is friendly with my brother... and my best friends... who'll go on double dates with any of the above mentioned
Someone who is totally in love... with me... and couldn't picture their life without me... crazy in love... someone who wouldn't mind putting up with my crazy quirks... but love me all the more for them... someone who will hold my hand... go out to Wed night dinners with my family... and laugh about my Uncle Frankie with me... someone who wouldn't mind reminising about the first time we met... or the first kiss... or the time when we realized we loved each other... and all the other crazy stories inbetween...
Someone who could be incredibly romantic when he wanted to be... and on special occasions could tap into that... someone who would sing to me... well is def perfered... lol... someone who understands it's not always rainbows and butterflies... but still smiles and loves me throughout the rainy days... someone who'll watch chick flicks... and humors me when we watch the Notebook... and tell me that the story is about us... and kiss me in all the right parts...
Someone who doesn't care I want my love life to be a fairy tale... someone who embraces that and makes sure our story is a fairy tale... someone who'll let me name my daughter Ariel... and humor me with the Disney nursery...
Someone who makes me whole.... makes me smile when I wake up... someone I love cuddling with in bed... and love waking up with him beside me... someone who'll kiss me awake... and kiss me goodnight every night... no matter how mad we were... someone who'll never let us go to bed mad at each other...
I know he's out there... come find me... complete me...
Patiently Awaiting Your Arrival...
Your Princess Amy