Office Perspective
I watched the office the other night. It was the episode after Dwight and Angela made their baby contract and Dwight started seeing isabel again without telling Angela..... Anyway on the parking lot Angela confronts Dwight about upholding their contract and he's like are you serious I don't want you and Isabel hits Angela on the forehead and embarrasses her so she leaves. That was kind of like a Deja vu moment for me. With all of wills gfs he had in the past, all but Emily were intimidated by me enough that once they were confronted they backed off. With Emily tho, I realize the feelings will developed for her and the picture he painted of me and our family to her. The way he talked about me being a crazy bitch and whatnot. So honestly she must've felt like they had something special. She knew ge cheated on me a lot and was like I'm different he loves me like he didn't love her. That was her mind set from my perspective and what I've read of her thoughts abd feelings. So anyway she was confronted and told that he was "cheating" on her with his wife and he eventually owned up to it and she forgave him but it continued behind her back basically. Whenever he was around her he didn't text me. But he also would confess to me when they would have sex out of guilt. She was far too deep into someone that was really just trying to hold on to his child hood and he was more or less living vicariously thru her. So anyway I was thinking a lot about it and I realized what I shouldve said to her. I should've said look Emily, I'm wills wife. He's my husband. We've been married 4 years and together for 8 with two kids and a family. I've been thru this before. Other girls thinking they have something I don't and can offer him something I don't have times ten. You aren't special. He's trying to stay a little boy instead of taking care of his responsibilities and you are doing nothing bit enabling him to do that. He's taking the easy way out of being a father and using you to feel like he's going somewhere he really doesn't want to go. He's avoiding the truth and his responsibility and you are his little accomplice. If you think your relationship will amount to anything you're wrong. Like I said before, you don't have anything I don't have. In fact I have more then either of you realize at this point. Why do you think we've been together so long? For one because he never found a girl that could compete with me and two because I love him unconditionally and have allowed him to be with other girls because I know he's coming back to me. That's what you don't understand. It's already begun. You guys had a few short weeks of an affair but that's all you are. We talk everyday and hang out together at night and sleep together, still. When you aren't following him around like a puppy he's with his family and wife. He's my husband. He's the love of my life and no amount of your childish ways are going to reverse that. We have a family that you're conflicting at this point. Its time for you to move on from this and leave with the little bit of dignity and respect you may have left......
But I have him back now. And as hard as it is at times. I'm so glad he's here
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