us women are quite vindictive

[lunar_scourge]

Okay so not a lot of people are online right now, but I just had to make a post. I don't even care if only three people see this, but I want to share, and I want your stories!

Comments

[myrobotvoice]

i dated this guy, and REEEEALLY loved him. but he cheated on me with this monster of a girl.

the got married a year later, and INVITED ME TO THE WEDDING. she was an uber bitch to me the entire time, even though i went with someone else.

i harbored NO FEELINGS towards the ex (except pity) and so in a fit of bitchy-ness, when it came time for the guests to suggest songs for the dj to play...i may or may not have suggest the song that the ex and i considered "our song"

from what i hear, because i left before it was played, he danced with her during the song, but looked for me.

really awful, I KNOW, but...who invites an ex to the wedding where the bride is the chick you cheated on her with?
(why did i even go?!)

[lunar_scourge]

Omg why DID you go? O_O I hope you're okay *hugs*

But wow you kinda got vengeance a bit with that didn't you lololol

[myrobotvoice]

oh man, totally okay. i think i went, because at the time, we were trying to be friends?

...it seemed to work out, because we ARE friends, and they're divorced.

[melonfucka]

lol it's pretty badass that you left before the song started playing tho.

[sadhellos]

when my ex did this to me, I always felt too bad to do too much damage and follow through with my plan. the thing was, he was being honest, and after what all that pain I just went through, I couldn't wish the same thing upon another person. I just turned him down and told him as nicely as I could.

but, if the guy's a player, and just toying with you, then the game is just too fun to resist :) it's not bad to have a little revenge once in a while. just make sure his intentions are good before deciding what to do.

[squeakybanana]

I've been a total of one relationship and the best revenge was growing out of that really volatile, awkward, insecure teenager phase (the insecurity being the only reason why we were together, really) into a better person, both inside and out. /cheesy

He's fat now and everyone comments on how he looks like a greasy politician's son.

[myrobotvoice]

no seriously! this is the BEST revenge - taking care and loving yourself! that's not cheesy at all.

[mouthwash]

Good for you for getting over him ♥
I'm in such a weird situation with an ex from a long time ago. We were best friends and inseparable for 2 years before we started dating, but I had to move away and I didn't want a long distance relationship so we broke it off. I thought we could still be friends but she started seeing someone else and that person told her that he didn't want me around her anymore because he was ~jealous~ and she told me we couldn't talk anymore.
So fine, like three years go by and I didn't hear from her, but last month we randomly found each other on tumblr and now she wants to be back in my life and I don't know if I can handle that. Part of me is still pretty pissed about everything that happened but I miss her and talking to her again is so great ;__;
I still have feelings for her and I know I'm just going to get hurt again in the end. Siiiigh, I don't know T__T /end rant

[defacetheessays]

what if i'm the douchebag? lol

[czarny]

LOL MTE!