Why???
Why do we make such horrible decisions all the time? Do you think we would learn from our mistakes the first time? What is it that makes us continually make the same wrong decisions over again? When someone brings out the worst in you, what is it about them you miss? Do you miss the fighting? Do you thrive off of the arguments? Is it some sick obsession you have with people that make you feel like shit constantly? Do you urn to punch more holes in the wall assuming it is the best way to decorate your home?
This is what I ask myself when it comes to Ex’s. We all catch ourselves settling back with a cozy Ex because it’s chartered territory. You don’t have to spend the time getting to know someone new. It’s the easiest way to get over someone that hurt you and in the same respect you are putting yourself in an unstable emotional situation.
If you think it will not happen again, you are wrong. People’s personalities don’t change. They suppress their emotions and feelings that caused you to split up in the first place in order to win you back. Once you are back and comfortable, the fighting starts with the vicious cycle of childish words and even more so the lack of trust.
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This is what I ask myself when it comes to Ex’s. We all catch ourselves settling back with a cozy Ex because it’s chartered territory. You don’t have to spend the time getting to know someone new. It’s the easiest way to get over someone that hurt you and in the same respect you are putting yourself in an unstable emotional situation.
If you think it will not happen again, you are wrong. People’s personalities don’t change. They suppress their emotions and feelings that caused you to split up in the first place in order to win you back. Once you are back and comfortable, the fighting starts with the vicious cycle of childish words and even more so the lack of trust.
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