Comments | olisko: I Love You. Good-bye.

olisko

I Love You. Good-bye.

Jun 04, 2007 10:42

When we set out to buy our own house, we received very good advice from a family member. It had only two points ( Read more... )

my life, dilemma, home, choices, marriage, family

Comments 19

allita78 June 4 2007, 15:03:37 UTC

Wait, so why are you not buying it?

bagira June 4 2007, 15:18:25 UTC

+1?

olisko June 4 2007, 15:21:10 UTC

I'm not sure what the main reason is. But the reasons have nothing to do with the house.

bagira June 4 2007, 15:27:09 UTC

Oh well, Ol'. It wasn't meant to be, then. I remember my parents were going to buy a house when they were still married. I really wanted them to do it--it was quite nice. But there was a big crack in the parking lot, and they did not like the mortgage terms my parents had... It made me quite sad. At this time, of course, it did not seem like they would get a divorce in a couple years (which they did). (Of course, in the middle of it they had bought another house and had to deal with selling it later--it wasn't a good time...)

So everything is probably for the best. Maybe you'll find a better house yet!

Thread 7

iguthrie June 4 2007, 15:20:47 UTC

Ольнька, what happened? Why won't you buy it?

olisko June 4 2007, 15:21:53 UTC

Because of what we discussed. And, other things. I'm very very sad :((((

kniazhna June 4 2007, 15:47:16 UTC

Honestly, I don't understand how can you not fall in love with a house you want to live in and how can you live in a house you don't love. There's got to be a connection. I'd be entirely miserable if I don't feel it and would continue looking for The House.

olisko June 4 2007, 18:23:20 UTC

You're right - I know it now :)

babushonok June 4 2007, 20:56:28 UTC

+1

and HUGS ;-)

You will find YOUR house...this was just a preview :-)

ex_yzzzma459 June 4 2007, 18:16:30 UTC

:(
you'll find a better one

olisko June 4 2007, 18:26:06 UTC

we'll probably be renting :(

ex_yzzzma459 June 4 2007, 19:08:58 UTC

i'm sorry :(
it's probably better to rent than to stretch your limits.
you'll own a house some day.
meanwhile enjoy not pulling weeds and not mowing the lawn :)

olisko June 4 2007, 19:22:41 UTC

our limits are not financial, far from it. that's what sucks. Anyway, thanks! :)

pelageya June 4 2007, 20:31:03 UTC

ты знаешь, дома приходят и уходят.

+ я могу твердо сказать, что когда у тебя дом - у тебя НАМНОГО меньше свободного времени. Оно тебе надо?

olisko June 5 2007, 18:41:31 UTC

Ну это само сабой :)

Уже надо. Я морально готова. Но - не судьба.