Strange Friendship
I have a friend, rather close one considering the depth of information we share with each other. Yet recently I am feeling more and more as our friendship became one sided where I would call, I would share some info, I would invite, I would arrange, I would offer help, yet her reply is rather stiff and short. Sometimes if I put some extra effort I would get more details from her, yet it really feels like an effort. I do not know what to think of this as I definitely feel that I do not need/want such a relationship. When I confronted her about this she denied that her behavior is different now. Hm……..Well, she indeed is going through some rough patches in her life and may be this is a way of coping…but why do I feel that this situation with her is such a drag even considering her problems…because those problems have been in there for a while and she doesn’t do anything about them saying that she is too tired now of everything. Normally I do not fell anger/frustration when people are facing problems, I understand, but now this is beyond my understanding. So, what do I do?
1) Grow distant and do not initiate anything anymore - will I feel guilty then that I left her alone when things
were not well?
2) Continue to behave as before and feel disgusted by our relationship?
3) ??????????? other ?????????????
1) Grow distant and do not initiate anything anymore - will I feel guilty then that I left her alone when things
were not well?
2) Continue to behave as before and feel disgusted by our relationship?
3) ??????????? other ?????????????