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So, I know this is quite a normal thing in TEH INTORNEZ and it's not really worth bitching about, but well... what do you rather like? Pure harsh honesty or some good meant word that are mostly just a lie to be polite?
Situation that just has happened and could have happened in the real world outside the internet as well.
I've been in a yiff channel for quite some time now, having played along with a lot of the users there. Recently one woman came in that has a strange behavior. She can't accept critics. Figured that out quickly. Also every time some gay sex started, she left immediately. She told me once she doesn't like it. Today, she told the whole channel why she doesn't like it. A kind harsh past. Getting told by a guy that his boyfriend is a better fuck. But well.. it's in the past, she has a happy relationship currently and is engaged. The past is something we can't change, only the present. And the present is just a horribly small amount of time to act.
So I told her to get over it, she got angry and left.
Now I was the center of attention but not for the right reason.
So there I was, getting told by some random guy that barely does anything to go kill myself while the rest tried to make me apologize for my behavior. I really don't think it was necessary and told them, why I act how I act. Honesty and truth are high values to me, higher than friendship so if I don't like something, then I will tell it, even if it means to hurt a friend. Living a lie doesn't help anyone, does it? Or is it just me who thinks that way? Is it wrong to tell someone to live in the here and now and not in the past? Some events might have been painful but the pain only lasts as long as you let it hurt you. Fear and anger are only as strong as you let them be, right?
Maybe I'm just a weirdo that has a way to different state of mind to be part of any community to fit in. Or maybe just in this society we call humanity.
Int0rnet... serious business
So, I know this is quite a normal thing in TEH INTORNEZ and it's not really worth bitching about, but well... what do you rather like? Pure harsh honesty or some good meant word that are mostly just a lie to be polite?
Situation that just has happened and could have happened in the real world outside the internet as well.
I've been in a yiff channel for quite some time now, having played along with a lot of the users there. Recently one woman came in that has a strange behavior. She can't accept critics. Figured that out quickly. Also every time some gay sex started, she left immediately. She told me once she doesn't like it. Today, she told the whole channel why she doesn't like it. A kind harsh past. Getting told by a guy that his boyfriend is a better fuck. But well.. it's in the past, she has a happy relationship currently and is engaged. The past is something we can't change, only the present. And the present is just a horribly small amount of time to act.
So I told her to get over it, she got angry and left.
Now I was the center of attention but not for the right reason.
So there I was, getting told by some random guy that barely does anything to go kill myself while the rest tried to make me apologize for my behavior. I really don't think it was necessary and told them, why I act how I act. Honesty and truth are high values to me, higher than friendship so if I don't like something, then I will tell it, even if it means to hurt a friend. Living a lie doesn't help anyone, does it? Or is it just me who thinks that way? Is it wrong to tell someone to live in the here and now and not in the past? Some events might have been painful but the pain only lasts as long as you let it hurt you. Fear and anger are only as strong as you let them be, right?
Maybe I'm just a weirdo that has a way to different state of mind to be part of any community to fit in. Or maybe just in this society we call humanity.
Int0rnet... serious business