secrecy
why do people do things that they know will hurt others? ya, they might think that no one will ever find out, but eventually, somehow, someone always finds out. and if they have to find out on their own, rather than from u, it hurts all the more. so y do they do it? what is the point? to make themselves feel better? does that feeling outweigh the hurt that u will cause someone else? i dont get it.