Also, I dated/lived with a guy for TWO YEARS and there toward the end when we were breaking up, he said in a discussion that he'd always had low self esteem because his eyes were not level. And I tell ya, until he said it, I had NEVER EVER NOTICED. And then it became un-unnoticeable. I coudn't stop noticing it. Moral: don't enumerate your physical flaws; other people might not see them unless you point them out.
Everything about this story is cracking me up, but this is pretty much the number one advice I give to people. Never point out your flaws to others. Like, nobody's checking for you. They won't notice unless you tell them.
My mom's optometrist pointed this out to her AND I STILL DON'T SEE IT. You have to look for it, and even then, I'm like, "Where am I looking? It's not there!"
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