"I want to marry Taylor and have kids with him," the star told Fitness in 2011. "I love acting, but if it affects my relationship, then I won't continue."
... I've never been committed to relationship like that tbh. Maybe it's different for hollywood type people, but I would pretty much pick career over relationship every time tbh.
Also I'm not even hating, everyone is different, it's just a mindset that I don't understand *kanye shrug*
carrie underwood said the same thing in her people cover this week. part of me gets it because it's a hard life and you are away from your loved ones a lot but most of me is offended that women would be willing to put everything into their career and then just give it all up because someone tells them to.
Yeah, I feel like you don't really hear men say those kinds of things- and if there have been, i'm just not remembering off-hand.
That being said, I feel like women should do w/e the fuck they want to do. If she wants to put her relationship first, she should. But I just hope that she's doing it because she wants to, not because she's succumbing to some pressure to do so.
this is p much the reason Stevie Nicks never got married / had kids, she said in the end no one she was with was ever able to accept her lifestyle and her career and she wasn't willing to give it up.
I get it. If there was a job or career that was taking me away from my immediate family a lot then I probably wouldnt stick with it because in my book family is more important than work always. Heather doesnt really like showbiz anyways so it makes sense for her.
I think it depends on how much you love what you're doing.
She seems to be a dancer first, actor second. If she's more commited to her relationship and knows she can be happy doing other things, then so be it. If acting was her passion, then I'd question it more.
Would I give up my job now for a guy? Probably because I'm not that attached to it. Would I give up traveling the world for a year for one? Probably not.
in my eyes,if two people really love each other then they can find a way to get their relationship to work without either of them giving up their whole careers.
Sometimes you can really love someone and the relationship might not work out because of the different path your lives are taking. And even though you really love the other person, sometimes I feel like there is value in realizing that you'd be sacrificing your own individual happiness for the happiness of the relationship unit and I'm not sure that's healthy.
Idk, people get together and break up. It doesn't mean they didn't really love each other while they were together :)
yeah i kinda meant that if someone really loves you and knows how much their career means to them,they wouldn't ask them to give it all up. idk i've never been in that position but if i was with someone who had an amazing career opportunity,i wouldn't want to ruin it for them and ask them to give it up.i would try to make it work in other ways
IA. I always think that the person making you choose is the wrong choice. Like, if someone told me to choose between them and whatever else, I would probably pick whatever else because I'd feel like someone who really cared about me wouldn't force my hand to choose. IDK I'm just speaking generally, not to her situation.
... I've never been committed to relationship like that tbh. Maybe it's different for hollywood type people, but I would pretty much pick career over relationship every time tbh.
Also I'm not even hating, everyone is different, it's just a mindset that I don't understand *kanye shrug*
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That being said, I feel like women should do w/e the fuck they want to do. If she wants to put her relationship first, she should. But I just hope that she's doing it because she wants to, not because she's succumbing to some pressure to do so.
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I've had very few serious relationships b/c I've always put my schooling/career first.
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She seems to be a dancer first, actor second. If she's more commited to her relationship and knows she can be happy doing other things, then so be it. If acting was her passion, then I'd question it more.
Would I give up my job now for a guy? Probably because I'm not that attached to it. Would I give up traveling the world for a year for one? Probably not.
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lol so cheesy
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Sometimes you can really love someone and the relationship might not work out because of the different path your lives are taking. And even though you really love the other person, sometimes I feel like there is value in realizing that you'd be sacrificing your own individual happiness for the happiness of the relationship unit and I'm not sure that's healthy.
Idk, people get together and break up. It doesn't mean they didn't really love each other while they were together :)
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idk i've never been in that position but if i was with someone who had an amazing career opportunity,i wouldn't want to ruin it for them and ask them to give it up.i would try to make it work in other ways
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