Jennifer Lopez’s friends claim singer tried to salvage failed relationship

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Page Six has a long exclusive on the Bennifer mess

most interesting part:

Ben is already on to a new girl: Kick Kennedy, the 36-year-old daughter of nutjob Robert F. Kennedy Jr.

They were seen hanging out in Hollywood “over the past few months”

more from the source:

“Ben has a darkness to him that

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[justrachna]

Tbh I believe it. He really does have a darkness to him. Like he needs constant reassurance or requires a lot of work on the woman’s part to keep him from spiralling into his bad habits. He seems like one of those self centred exhausting males. I know she’s full of herself too but I always felt that there was something seriously off about him. Like he can never be happy

Edited because i can’t spell

[sapphiredragon]

A hundo p, add that with getting famous and successful at a relatively young age, he was constant getting that feedback loop and needing that attention fix. Also many of his famous exes have talked about he cheated, I remember Gwyneth saying his happiest place would be at the strip club.

[justrachna]

lmao goop didn't hold back but i can definitely see that being true. i think he likes being in a relationship until something is required on his part and then he cheats. he's such a loser

[__onthebound]

I think he finds the chase exciting and thinks he wants the relationship only to find out he doesn't. Over and over and over. I think might really want a happy dad guy life. I don't think he is capable.

[skyler_white_yo]

I said in another post that he’s a good boyfriend, but shitty husband. I’m sure he does all the right things with the women he dates, and probably treats them good (until he cheats). But when it comes to marriage, that takes a different kind of work and energy that he probably doesn’t possess.

[justrachna]

this is really spot on, i didn't even think of that but you're right, once he's married he becomes so shitty

[__onthebound]

lol I made a really similar comment and I hadn't seen yours!

[genbu_no_miko24]

People can talk shit but I’d rather deal with Jennifer being fame-obsessed than whatever demons Ben has (I wish him well though).

Everyone wants to be Poor Ben but he knew who she was is and she’s never denied that aspect of herself. But also plays the pap game too cause how else did they catch him with those DD drinks when he was dating Ana De Armas? And he managed to get a sponsorship deal and superbowl commercials out of that. That was a nice fat paycheck. None of that was random.

[donaestrangera]

I think it’s so funny that before Ben, Ana was clearly looking for a famous boyfriend to be half of a power couple with, then she got Ben, and now she’s extremely private and lives on a farm in Vermont with her rich and non-famous boyfriend. Like being with Ben scarred her and convinced her that being in a power couple wasn’t worth it. What did he do to make her change her mind like that lol?

[genbu_no_miko24]

Tea report!! Oooh who’s this boyfriend? 👀 🍵

Hmm I wonder if Oscar campaign szn affected her too. Like regardless of the Blonde controversy she won cause she got an Oscar nod. But I wonder if the instant fame (and drama) made her look at it differently.

Now with Ben who knows cause I agree she was def looking for clout and a social climb (I got nothing against that) but she was like “you know what? Shot not worth it) PLUS!! Don’t forget there was that pap shot of her life-size cardboard image being thrown in the trash. LOL that would have staying away from A-listers who have the papz on speed-dial too!! 📲

[donaestrangera]

His name is Paul Boukadakis, he’s a rich tech guy like Lady Gaga’s man. After the fallout of the Ben relationship Ana moved to NYC to live closer to her brother and then to a farm in Vermont with Paul. I believe at some point it was reported they were engaged, but since Ana has barely been seen in public for like a year now I wouldn’t be surprised if they quietly got married or even started a family tbh.

But how bad must Ben have been to be with that the girl who desperately wanted a famous boyfriend and the attention that came with that, to get a taste of it and then to nope out and to completely change her ways lol? Ana spill all!

Yeah I’m sure the scrutiny she got for Blonde also affected her. Criticizing her for the movie itself is one thing but she was also getting a lot of misogynistic hate from people who were calling her a bad actress who only gets roles because she’s willing to go nude and racist hate from people who were mad that a Latina got cast as Marilyn Monroe.

[genbu_no_miko24]

LOL Ben and Ana were hilarious, this tweet from her own fan account still kills me!!

Ana de Armas & Ben Affleck walk their dogs outside instead of praying for the pandemic to go away on Easter Sunday. (April 12, 2020) pic.twitter.com/JAc6trnepj
- Ana de Armas Updates (@ArmasUpdates) April 12, 2020
Yeah I think Ben has got a lot of issues stemming from alcoholism/sobriety past, which I do wish him well on. But Ben def plays into the fame game cause now I'm remembering how suddenly fit he go the minute he got back with Jennifer! I think he's the type of guy that think his life will be radically changed for the better everytime he gets with a new girl but then gets disillusioned once the honeymoon period is over. Cause him even kinda bouncing around Jennifer Garner was interesting

[donaestrangera]

i just thought of the ArmasUpdates account for the first time in a long time today and scrolled down to see what Ana has been up to... even her stan account isn't sure, she never calls the paps on herself anymore!!! it's funny that at the time people saw Ana as the fame-hungrier member of the relationship with Ben but she stopped while Ben still calls the paps on himself constantly

[genbu_no_miko24]

Yeah I noticed after the Oscars and her film with Chris Evans (Ghosted) she quietly dipped out of the spotlight, we won't see until the John Wick's Ballerina spinoff comes out

[recognitions]

Is there anyone who's been involved with him that hasn't regretted it?

[justrachna]

i agree, jennifer never lied about loving being in the spotlight, she will be the first to tell you it's why she went into the business. she wanted to be famous, and i can respect that