David Harbour Says Marriage to Lily Allen Is 'So Great'

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David Harbour Says Marriage to Lily Allen Is 'So Great': ‘We Grow Closer and Closer’ (Exclusive) https://t.co/fOnEnMkzU5
- People (@people) November 11, 2023

Remember two weeks ago when Lily Allen unfollowed husband David Harbour on Instagram and the Daily Mail reported that they were living separate lifes

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[invisiblegirlx]

If you're always annoyed when you're together maybe you shouldn't be married. People have really fucked up ideas about marriage. It shouldn't be hard to be married to someone if you enjoy their company.

[therearewords]

"You have to fight for it!"
Uhhhh

[pi_lady]

I was so confused when a lot of people started to complain about having to spend entire days with their partners/spouses when the pandemic started.

[evett]

the push to go back into the office was fueled by boomers and genx-ers who couldn't stand being at home with their spouses (and their kids) anymore

[solookup]

lol all the managers went into work every day during covid. they had their own offices etc. they're all gen-x+ - you're 100% on point. now we have to go back twice a week and still need to do daycare drop offs and pick ups (40+ mins commute each way). or i work from home and it's a 5 minute drive.

[healthypanda]

Right? Like my husband and I have our moments like any other couple, but we love spending time together.

[myrasis]

a coworker was talking about how she's going to have to get used to being around her husband again because she's planning to scale back to 4 days a week, and i'm just left thinking "why are you even together if he's that much of a pain?"

for the record her husband comes in a fair bit to the work place and he is, in fact, quite annoying. people will literally live in a hell of a person they're at bitch-eating-crackers level with rather than getting a divorce.

[sweetwaterlane]

I remember a friend of mine who'd just gotten married worked in a school and her husband was training to become a teacher. I commented how great, maybe they would work in the same school! And she said "eh i think I'd prefer we don't work at the same place." I found that curious because I thought if you love someone, why wouldn't you want to see them around more hours of the day. But I guess there could be non red flaggy reasons that i'm just missing.

But i'm also biased because I met my now husband at work and I found it to be a perk having him close by to get lunch together etc. When people talk about not wanting to be around their spouses it seems concerning.

[peachypearl]

I'm not sure tbh. I've worked with a partner before and it was a bit annoying because there is a difference between how I am at work and how I was at home back then. It almost felt like I was being 'watched' in a sense even though I wasn't.

But at the end a lot of people say they prefer to keep work and personal life separate. To 99% of people that means not really becoming friends with your coworkers and keeping things professional but it can totally also work the other way around and that you don't want to bring your home to your work.

(But tbh a lot of people can't stand their partners either...so sad)