Ricky Martin cheating with porn star is alleged cause of divorce from husband

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Ricky Martin is facing allegations of infidelity, as it is claimed that he betrayed his husband, Jwan Yosef, by engaging in an affair with porn actor, Max Barz.

The recent announcement of their split has shed light on the underlying cause, namely Martin's deep involvement with… pic.twitter.com/ZDLkdH7PmT
- Pop Tingz (@ThePopTingz) July 10, 2023
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[pikapika217]

I literally got into a tiff with someone on Twitter a few days ago about/over this in Eve 6000's tweet about this. Like even if things are open I am certain there are rules to that but in general I am not sure why monogamy is always described as 'heteronormative' by some gay men. Everyone should have the relationship they want to have with their partner/s and communicate their needs with them but I just.....don't understand the idea of monogamy or non monogamy as coded to one sexuality or another.

[theleveebroke]

Both gay relationships and open relationships are considered "outside the norm", so I feel like it's less of a leap to associate the two. I also feel like it's less taboo to discuss being open or nonmonogamous in gay relationships because there aren't the same cultural expectations as there are in straight relationships.

I don't agree that monogamy is inherently hetero-normative, but I can see the leap for the opposite.

[automaticpeople]

I think it’s because a lot of gay men think men aren’t “designed” to be monogamous and that women are the ones who push for it.

[goodnight2u]

I think some gay men buy into the gender essentialist belief that men have higher sex drives than women, so men attracted to men can't be expected to be monogamous.

[goldenhera]

Yes, it's always disappointing when I see/hear those takes.

[slinkydinks]

I'm an old, but also just the trust aspect to me: like, HIV, monkeypox, etc. I just don't wanna deal with that level of risk. Running around is exhausting. Just let me fuck someone on the regular please lol

[winter_lace]

there's a whole lotta shit tied up with marriage/religion/monogomy/heteronormativity/nuclear family and we have no where near started to unpack that so. There's probably some sort of rejection of "normal" (or what we've been fed as) relationships tied up into that too.