Ricky Martin cheating with porn star is alleged cause of divorce from husband

[milotic2]

Ricky Martin is facing allegations of infidelity, as it is claimed that he betrayed his husband, Jwan Yosef, by engaging in an affair with porn actor, Max Barz.

The recent announcement of their split has shed light on the underlying cause, namely Martin's deep involvement with… pic.twitter.com/ZDLkdH7PmT
- Pop Tingz (@ThePopTingz) July 10, 2023
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[derevko]

ok I've always been monogamous, so how does that work - to have an open marriage and consider that the other s.o. cheated several times? If he hooked up with other people while in an open marriage, that should be ok, no?

not taking into consideration 'Martin becoming obsessed with Barz', just the last bit with the several affairs. I mean, I would've ended things when the allegations from the nephew came out

[emptyobsidian]

Even in open relationships, there are usually rules or boundaries. If Ricky is "obsessed" then that definitely sounds like a boundary crossing for any actual open relationship. You aren't supposed to catch feelings.

[derevko]

that I completely understand and agree, but I was wondering how Jwan felt that Ricky cheated on him several times, maybe he felt every time feelings were involved too? idk

[theactualworst]

It’s probably that he would continue to see certain people even after his partner that person made him uncomfortable. Or just going off and fucking other people before discussing it first.

[milotic2]

Maybe their rule was to always have sex together

[derevko]

ah I see, that would make sense

[richyrich909]

Yeah. I know a few open couples, but it’s typically a joint venture and purely physical. And even if there is a constant hookup usually they both have to be on it and no weird side interaction.

[manu19]

Deciding to suck some dick together while you are horny = ok

One party sneaking out to go to the „gym“ but actually having a continuous hook up behind the others back = NOT ok

[a_files06]

Depends.

Open relationships vary:
-only when you're out of town
-have to use protection, no kissing
-have to inform them of the person they're planning on hooking up with

So many ways that people go about it

[anterrabre]

It really depends on the parameters that you set up in your relationship, and that varies by couple. I know someone living in a throuple with her husband and lover (with hubby also having a long-time love) and their thing was while flings were okay any long-term lovers have to be vouched for by both of them. Another couple I know are for short-term flings but nothing serious with a person outside the relationship. The problems occur when someone wants to deliberately break the boundaries you set as a couple; a good friend of mine ended up getting divorced with a major reason being that her boundary was "Anyone but [blank], idc" and guess who her husband ended up having an affair with behind her back for months? Another problem is people being okay with an open relationship where they are the one sleeping with others, only to do a backsie when someone starts sniffing around their partner and that's not fair.

[ginainabottle]

Speaking for myself, all my relationships in the past 5 years or so have been NM and the rules vary from partner to partner. I'm usually fine with just fucking anyone I want/having casual fuck buddies, but some of my past agreements involved ONS only/no actual relationship beyond casual sex (like it's fine to meet up to fuck but don't go see a play together lol).

Non-monogamy involves a LOT of talking, which is necessary but pretty overwhelming at times lol

[anterrabre]

Oh gurl, not the plays, lol!

[ginainabottle]

I KNOW lmao the dudes i've been in relationships with always seemed far more alarmed by the idea of me connecting emotionally/intelectually with another man than the idea I could be fucking a different guy every night (I wasn't btw lol). I guess men know the chances of a woman finding a guy who's an incredible lay are way smaller than finding a guy who can carry a decent, interesting conversation lol

[tralexora]

That's the opposite of my problem 😅
I keep finding dudes who are amazing in bed but I have zero interest in getting to know further.

[ginainabottle]

LIFE IS NOT FAIR lol seriously, I don't even remember the last dude I didn't have to essentially teach how to make me cum. I really miss having mindblowing sex

[tralexora]

Grass is always greener...

I want someone to talk to and connect with 😂

May we both get a healthy balance of all our needs/wishes 🌈🤞🏻