Hell the costume designer dressed Lea MIchelle like this the entire time she was in “high school” in the show, it made no sense that her character would dress like a weird combo of kindergarten teacher and maxim magazine spread
Speaking of that... ONTD, how do you feel about dressing up/ being asked by your significant other to dress as a school girl?
A guy I was seeing asked me to dress up as a schoolgirl, pigtails and all (I was 25 and he was 27 btw). The first time I didn't mind, I thought we were trying something different? But then he became kinda obsessed with the idea to the point where he didn't want to have sex in normal clothes (and if we did, he was significantly less enthusiastic about it). It rubbed me the wrong way, I was feeling awful and I stopped seeing him.
I'm not saying using costumes or whatever is wrong in general, but the school girl thing is gross.
I think the obsession with it was a red flag 🚩 I’m glad glad you recognized that. In general I don’t think anything of it asking for your partner to dress up for fun play.
Good for you for dropping his pervy ass. I mean costumes are cool and all, but when a grown man is turned on by you dressed like a young school girl that's a sign to GET OUT. I'm glad you did.
i don't think so. i think it's absolutely about fetishizing youth and girlhood and the forbidden nature of 'jailbait.' it's not teen boys who typically have schoolgirl fetishes, it's older men.
I don't think it's an immediate red flag to be interested because honestly the outfits can be cute but literally everything past trying it once in your comment is a big no no.
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A guy I was seeing asked me to dress up as a schoolgirl, pigtails and all (I was 25 and he was 27 btw). The first time I didn't mind, I thought we were trying something different? But then he became kinda obsessed with the idea to the point where he didn't want to have sex in normal clothes (and if we did, he was significantly less enthusiastic about it). It rubbed me the wrong way, I was feeling awful and I stopped seeing him.
I'm not saying using costumes or whatever is wrong in general, but the school girl thing is gross.
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