Discussion for House of Hammer docuseries

[silverstarry]

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Discovery's three episode docuseries The House of Hammer (about Armie Hammer and his family) premiered on September 2. If you have read the previous ONTD posts like the Vanity Fair article or his aunt Casey's book about their family, you won't learn a ton of new information from this series (the family's history with Watergate/being pardoned by

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[my_moloko]

I don’t even know what to say. The whole family is so fucked up. I feel awful for his aunt and I can’t imagine how scary it would be to watch your brothers son grow up and carry out the exact same behaviour.

I said it before but I appreciate how much the documentary stressed that Armie used BDSM as a cover for his abuse and that what he was doing wasn’t BDSM at all. He is the epitome of every horrible abusive fake daddy dom out there.

Okay I’m responding to the “write more” so here is my advice if you are interested in BDSM: meet the person in public first, make a long list of things that are off limits and what you want to explore, discuss boundaries and expectations, there should be ongoing active consent and for fuck’s sake, use a safe word!! The red light green light method is my favourite because you can say yellow light to indicate that the person needs to ease up without stalling the action altogether. If someone tells you they “don’t need a safe word” get the fuck away from them. And aftercare is an extremely important part of the process. A dom/me who doesn’t engage in aftercare is shitty and not worth your time.