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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:14:07 UTC
fuck.

that's what my mom died of. from what they told us, it was pretty much instant, and she did not suffer. of all the ways to go, it's not a bad one, at least for the person going (speaking from experience, having lost my dad to a long illness). but for the people left behind? staggering.

the word "disorienting" strikes a chord. with a sudden passing of a loved one, you feel like you lose your place in the world. "disorienting" is such an apt way to describe that awful feeling.

:'(

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spankmypirate June 27 2022, 21:24:08 UTC
I'm so sorry, bb 😞

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:35:01 UTC
thank you bb <333

his death was devastating enough as it was, but this just twisted the knife :(

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sassalicious June 27 2022, 21:25:16 UTC
It's truly scary how fast and aortic dissection or ruptured aortic aneurysm can take someone. I will never forget the person that was transported to my hospital for emergency surgery and was MOMENTS away from being taken to the OR when it blew and they passed away. At least their family was there and had those few moments before going back & the person didn't suffer, but it's so awful. No time to mentally & emotionally prepare.

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:36:38 UTC
exactly. it's so sudden and (by the point it ruptures) inescapable.

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doriiansz June 27 2022, 21:25:59 UTC
I'm so sorry for your loss.

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:37:23 UTC
thank you bb. it's been a few years (not that many, tbh) but this brought it all back for a moment :(

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anterrabre June 27 2022, 21:30:23 UTC
I'm so sorry. I'm glad your mom didn't suffer.

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:38:23 UTC
thank you bb, and i feel the same way. it's comforting, because my dad was more stoic, and he fought, but my mom was an anxious person and she hated hospitals, so in a way this was the best way for her to go.

:)

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beaucadeau June 27 2022, 21:35:24 UTC
my deepest condolences <3

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:38:44 UTC
thank you so much bb <333

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loverdestroyed June 27 2022, 21:46:02 UTC
i'm sorry bb <33333 watching my dad slowly decline to cancer over two years was really hard, so i understand what you mean

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:58:02 UTC
exactly bb. it's such a helpless feeling.

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maithancailin June 27 2022, 21:57:07 UTC
My mother also died of it. Hugs to you.

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demented_21 June 27 2022, 21:58:30 UTC
oh bb. i'm sorry. hugs <333

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maithancailin June 27 2022, 22:08:18 UTC
Thanks. It's bringing me back to memories of day she died even though it's nearly been 6 years so I'm gonna peace out of here but I'm glad he wasn't alone.

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