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iznanassi October 21 2021, 04:35:57 UTC
It wasnt just the abortion, he convinced her to have premarital sex by saying he was serious and the relationship would go to marriage and the moment she got pregnant he told her to get an abortion, he would pay for it and he would still marry her bc he knew she was older and had already had 1 marriage so she wanted to settle down. He paid what afaik is the standard price of abortion in SK, then ghosted her for the rest of the hospital bills for her treatment.

There was another post about a fencer who got a college student pregnant back when abortion was illegal (its not legal now but its decriminalized) so she needed his permission and money to abort the child but he ghosted her as soon as he found out she was pregnant. She tried to contact his relatives, so she could get in contact w him, who he would brag about being famous. They all told her it was none of their business and she needed to figure it out. She ended up having a male friend pretend to be her boyfriend and scraped up the money but it put her in debt and her health deteriorated from the stress which cost her more in hospital bills. She found out recently the dude got married so she was pissed and contact the wife, the wife said she was sorry that happened to her and offered to give her some money but kept arguing abt what amount she'd be willing to give the girl.

I would be glad if this was a new wave of public shaming scandals bc the way women are treated for their reproductive choices is ridiculous. Its ok for men to lie and manipulate, but if women trust them theyre idiots and should expect to shoulder the burden of pregnancy and childbirth and parenting on their own. If they abort theyre a heartless bitch. If they need help with the cost theyre golddiggers. Enough is enough.

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mayjailer October 21 2021, 04:45:50 UTC
i'm sorry, i didn't mean to be vague or leave details out. most of the sources i referenced when making the post only mentioned the abortion part of the original story.

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iznanassi October 21 2021, 04:51:00 UTC
Its fine, the abortion was the biggest part of the scandal bc abortion is still a taboo subject in korea but the whole story is just bad vibes.

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ohwutevernvm October 21 2021, 04:50:52 UTC
Thank you for this in-depth details. Appreciated. Just… wow

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iznanassi October 21 2021, 04:53:49 UTC
**Correction: he didnt "ghost" her, he dumped her over phone call citing his finances and his image. He also yelled at her for "guilt-tripping him" while she sent receipts of her hospital treatment. Idk if the money he sent was enough but regardless she didnt necessarily need the money since its come out that shes wealthy. It was more the principle of the thing.

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slaygalthessily October 21 2021, 05:01:46 UTC
From her post, she sent him receipts to show she was spending the money on what it was intended and she wasn’t pocketing it or something.

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anterrabre October 21 2021, 06:39:32 UTC
We really need a "shocked" emoji.

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iznanassi October 21 2021, 07:54:44 UTC
THANK YOU.

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cheerspinkears October 21 2021, 16:20:56 UTC
Wow. The layers to this shit. Fuck him.

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h0ly_ravioli October 21 2021, 22:05:22 UTC
didn't he also convince her to have sex without a condom when he went to her house to talk about the abortion saying that since she was already pregnant it was safe?

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