Tyler Posey was drained and couldn’t take himself serious by posing on only fans

[milotic2]

Facebook postIn recent months, Tyler was among the many celebrities that had an only fans account, posting sexy photos

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[zeriyx]

as a gay man, even i often find the idea of men finding themselves sexual or sexy completely off-putting. i frequently let out boisterous laughter at shirtless male influencers doing whatever it is they consider to be sexy. i do appreciate a good dick pic though holla

[cbluechicken]

It's honestly weird and funny because they all do the same thing over and over. And it just feels like your worth in the gay world is how fuckable you are. My FWB is a hunky, tall bear and I always tell him that I prefer meeting men in person vs the apps and it's weird because he's like "i cant do that, I need the validation from the apps/social media". And it made me kinda sad that someone as awesome as him still can't see it himself without the validation of social media.

[zeriyx]

i met a guy off grindr recently ish and he was SO awkward and nervous and it made me think i literally don't get nervous at all anymore. when i say i don't get nervous, i actually mean i don't get nervous. i am not sure if that means i am confident or i've met so many of these bros that it's just a routine day at the office.

[cbluechicken]

My friends disagree (probably because I'm describing them) but I feel like grindr/scruff etc have made it easier to meet men but legit there are so many men that are unable to translate in person. They're good on the apps but bad in person and every now and then you hit the jackpot and it's both. I've been just casually chatting (not meeting) new guys since my breakup and I'm like....bored.

[zeriyx]

i don't want a long term partner at all so i just enjoy whatever it is, while it lasts. men are welcome to come over, but then they gotta go. i live in east bubblefuck oklahoma so it's begging to get your head kicked in to approach anyone as if they're part of the gay community. apps are literally the only place.

[cbluechicken]

That makes sense, NYC is different. Is there a reason you don't want a long term partner.

[zeriyx]

i am overpaid to do a job i enjoy which means i am not leaving the region. the likelihood of me meeting a guy here that won't end up irritating the shit out of me is quite low. i've just grown to accept it's unlikely to happen, which has sort of become a self-fulfilling prophecy. i've had feelings for two guys probably in the last six years and one of them ended up being separated from his wife and got back with her. the other just treated me badly after a while and all those feelings came back to why i operate the way that i do.

[whysogayprop8]

Gurl...

[messfortwo]

there are so many men that are unable to translate in person

omg I feel very attacked, I'm so awkward in person but I can give you my whole life story on the app :/

[zeriyx]

back when i used to get nervous, i'd have a cocktail or two beforehand. however, probably not a good idea if you're seeking a future husband.

[adam_pally]

I don't know if he can only see himself without validation so much as online validation is a like a drug and it gets addictive. Even pre social media people would stress about how they looked if they were going to the clubs because you wanted guys to think you were hot even if you weren't;t looking to hook up. Social media has just made it easier and the feeling you got when a guy would come up in person and flirt with you, is multiplied exponentially.

[cbluechicken]

Yeah, I think that's what he meant but it still made me sad. It does get addictive. I even feel like sometimes if my body was a little better, I'd have more play. It's so odd how as my body changed (gained more muscle) and got a beard, the same men who ignored me, now message me. It feels good for a second but then I'm like....yikes.

[genbu_no_miko24]

To a degree I feel the same way. Because sometimes I’m like “meh the girls do this effortlessly better” but I don’t know if that’s also because I’m so use to seeing women pose sexy~ in magazines/movies in general. And even a lot of that is molded~ and set up perfectly to elicit the gaze and response.

[zeriyx]

i can appreciate a broad shouldered, thin-waisted shirtless man, but when he does duck face punctuated by a halfhearted tiktok dance, mama has to guffaw.

[genbu_no_miko24]

Yeah if they try to copy or recreate what the girlies are doing but are serious about it.......it's a no from me.

[lebanezrscrooge]

a bisexual male friend of mine expressed something similar to this to me, but also said he was concerned it had sexist undertones. like he accepts and expects women to be sexualized in that way and its embarrassing when men do it. as a bisexual woman i think ive probably been falling into the same thought process but thinking it was because of my preference for women rather than internalized misogyny of some sort. anyway just food for thought