trying to explain to my sweet, but naive and socially awkward friend with tye cripplingly low self esteem that if the woman with the only fans replied kindly to his instagram dm, that its because she wants him as a customer, and not because he has a chance with her?
i just 🤦♀️ he's messaging me telling me that even though she said that she wasn't interested in talking to him, the fact that she liked his message is a good sign, and he just wants to take a chance and see.
told him that she was rejecting him - nicely, but it was a rejection all the same - and that he needs to keep in mind that she likely isn't going to react the way he hopes. but i cant make him listen to me i suppose.
....is your friend my brother? Lawd. He sees a professional cuddler (who he pays to cuddle with him, though he hasn't seen her since covid started) and is pretty much in love with her. "I think there's a chance!" She delicately told him no, that they are only friends, but he still holds out hope. I've had to have similar conversations with him, but there is no convincing him. And he is SUPER sensitive about the subject. It's rough.
he seems cautious but also optimistic? like i said to him, look that was a rejection, she's not interested. and he's all, well maybe, but i just want to give it a shot!
i just told him not to go all nice guy on the poor woman 🤦♀️ like i said, he won't listen
I don't understand why men have zero social skills when it comes to women, who teaches them that every little thing means the woman wants to fuck them? I just...
Yup and how much of this attitude and the man’s fear of rejection lead to assault because they literally don’t know how to understand other people’s feelings. Some of these monsters who assault women know what they’re doing and others have convinced themselves otherwise and believe their own bs.
i just 🤦♀️ he's messaging me telling me that even though she said that she wasn't interested in talking to him, the fact that she liked his message is a good sign, and he just wants to take a chance and see.
told him that she was rejecting him - nicely, but it was a rejection all the same - and that he needs to keep in mind that she likely isn't going to react the way he hopes. but i cant make him listen to me i suppose.
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i just told him not to go all nice guy on the poor woman 🤦♀️ like i said, he won't listen
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Some of these monsters who assault women know what they’re doing and others have convinced themselves otherwise and believe their own bs.
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