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cbluechicken August 1 2020, 22:24:40 UTC
White men cannot be trusted when it comes to being with POC. Bless the relationships that work out but I just feel like often times the white male ego is just way too strong for anything fruitful and non-violent.

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screamingintune August 1 2020, 22:53:35 UTC
every creepy white guy on this show is like "I like X ethnicity because of their strong family values" and it's like yeah sure you're just a fucking creeps

there have been several who say they are into Filipina women because divorce is illegal in the Philippines and they essentially want a woman who doesn't see divorce as a viable option

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cbluechicken August 1 2020, 23:02:22 UTC
I hope I'm overstepping my racial boundary but I feel like I've heard the conversation of white men liking Asian men and women bc they assume they will be submissive, quiet, not speak their mind.

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screamingintune August 1 2020, 23:07:08 UTC
my BFF is from Hong Kong and she's gotten guys who expect this, yes. they are VERY much barking up the wrong tree with her lol. she's much more interested in guys who might wanna be pegged. but yeah it happens plenty. and when it comes to international dating they go for these women who live in extreme poverty so there's this awful power imbalance. And on 90DF they're usually broke assholes!!

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la_geni August 2 2020, 01:41:09 UTC
Basically. I was talking to a friend of mine about how the white man and weebs basically sold this narrative about Asian people. Like Asian people see them as gods or something (one of my friends told me that Eat, Pray, Love even has a whole quote about this). Anyway, I have personally been in the presence of white people here in Asia saying shit like “I’ll get away with this thing/I’ll get this job easily because I'm blonde/white.” Yet they look like a redneck Becky that barely bathes. They are hurting themselves with this BS.

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thinkweism August 1 2020, 23:08:44 UTC
They just literally want someone to trap and enslave. That's literally it. Someone who has "no choice" but to be obedient, submissive, and essentially stuck. It's super fucked up.

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lolita_applebum August 2 2020, 05:56:53 UTC
Been there, will never do that again.

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