nhf for so much of the discourse around 'pansexuality' making it not about.. sex? if that makes sense? sometimes it feels as if some people are saying it's bad that genitals matter to some people. personality, vibe, etc. are all important but also looks are a thing and wanting to fuck someone bc you think they are hot is a thing and that's part of sexuality too.
that’s the one thing that rubs me wrong, the way it’s always described as if pansexuals transcend~ all those plebeian earthly pleasures and are above~ it
There are far more sexual characteristics than just genitals and you can’t reduce it down to just what’s in someone’s pants.
That is not what the op said, sexuality isn’t about genitals but it does play an important part for a lot of people. I’m a gay man and I love dick. Anyone i date has to have a dick, it doesn’t mean i’ll date everyone with a dick. That’s not reducing someone down to what’s in their pants.
that's completely true! what i'm saying is discussion of pansexuality seemingly tries to remove genitalia from the discussion, especially the 'hearts not parts' people. like yeah hearts matter but so does sex.
Reply
Reply
You are 100% right. Pan/demi/whatever the hell made up-sexuality and modern 'queer' theory are simply manifestations of progressive~ homophobia.
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Like 'I'm attracted to personality!!' Yeah, so am I. So are most people I would assume.
Reply
(The comment has been removed)
That is not what the op said, sexuality isn’t about genitals but it does play an important part for a lot of people. I’m a gay man and I love dick. Anyone i date has to have a dick, it doesn’t mean i’ll date everyone with a dick. That’s not reducing someone down to what’s in their pants.
Reply
Reply
(The comment has been removed)
Reply
It falls under sexuality. An attraction. Doesn't mean pansexuals don't wanna fuck.
Most do. Some don't. Like any other sexuality.
Not all hets or homs wanna fuck. Most do, but some don't.
Tl;dr Your problem is an internal issue to work out.
Reply
Leave a comment