Diane von Furstenberg’s dating advice: It’s ‘not cute to be needy’

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Diane von Furstenberg’s dating advice: It’s ‘not cute to be needy’ https://t.co/zsLpdAU9r1 pic.twitter.com/4lXOXztxnu
- Page Six (@PageSix) July 22, 2019
The fashion designer discussed how to be single

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[ginainabottle]

i was blessed with the ability to completely lose interest if someone isn't interested in me, thank god. i see so many of my friends pining for people who clearly aren't into them and it's kinda crazy to me that they see it as a challenge/something that piques their interest. my aphrodisiac is reciprocity, if you don't show it, i move on super quickly.

[cbluechicken]

I think for some it feels like "well what's wrong with me" so you are chasing validation. It's never worth it

[espressotorte]

Luckily you didn't have to learn this response lol.

[thinkweism]

lmao ia. i learned over many years of rejection to finally lose any and all interest when people start acting wishy-washy or indifferent.

[oh_ilikethat]

YUP. So glad I did though

[eatmydustbinns]

Yes! Same here. I do not respond well to people being aloof and negging. If you're not into me, then clearly you have poor taste.

[solsty]

Hahahahaha amazing

[nene718]

lmao yas

[my_moloko]

[msbombtastic]

yeah, like if I'm into you, I want you to be into me too. I don't have time for/interest in games or "making" someone fall for me lol

[oh_ilikethat]

Yeah the idea of “making” someone like you is so confusing cause it’s like...if you eventually “break them down” (which is gross) they’ll just be settling for you

Then you’ll be dating someone who doesn’t like you as much as you like them which is bound to cause problems pretty much right off the bat

[msbombtastic]

Exactly! I could never, even if you "succeed" I don't see how that would be fulfilling if you have to pull more of the weight in the relationship from the jump.

[zazie_toujours]

Right? Steve Urkel teas

[zoom_z00m]

Same af lmao I have friends chasing after dudes who aren’t into them at all and I’m like.. my number one turn off is someone who doesn’t like what I got goin on. Fuck that ~what u can’t have shit. chances are u don’t even want it for any other reason anyway 🙄

[invinouvae]

Same. I had one particular friend who was very desperate for a relationship that even when this one guy told her from the get go (unlike the others) he wasn't interested in her like that, she thought she could change his mind.

[oh_ilikethat]

I had a friend like this too. She would ask guys “why” they were rejecting her because she thought she could prove them wrong .

One day she got a really hurtful answer and I think it cured her of that tbh