Heidi Klum Is Engaged to Tom Kaulitz After Nearly a Year of Dating

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Heidi Klum Is Engaged to Tom Kaulitz After Nearly a Year of Dating: 'She's So in Love,' Says Source https://t.co/cZ9a9WLdWI
- People (@people) December 24, 2018

Heidi Klum is engaged to Tom Kaulitz. The couple has been dating for nearly a year. They were first spotted together in March and made their public debut in May.

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[mandramoddle]

Yeah, I can't seem him taking on the role of stepdad.

[sweetsdecline]

It seems like he gets along with them. There is always videos of him playing video games and the kids are wearing Tokyo Hotel sweatshirts in one photo. He is a bit immature so they probably see him as a friend more than a dad.

[soul_amazinn]

Key word step dad. It's not like he has to put in work of parenting

[brokecouture]

This comment had me thinking A LOT and I could marry someone new unless he wasnt willing to 100% adopt and put in the work with my hypothetical kids as if they were his, they don’t need him to be their friend. That’s what school is for LOL (drunk and thinking deeply).

[soul_amazinn]

Nah I completely agree. I don't have kids but I would hope my spouse wouldn't see my kids as "friends" but I think when there's already a father involved some boundaries would probably need to be there. I guess it depends on the family idk

[brokecouture]

It def depends on the family, ia. Especially if there is a positive relationship with the father who is already involved between his children, there definitely would need to be a conversation between all adults lol.

[slaughtermatic]

to each their own, i would want to parent my kids together with their father and for the 30yr old kid im marrying to shut the fuck up completely and maybe drive them to things sometimes so i can chill. he has nothing to contribute.

[brokecouture]

I guess my perspective was from my own personal experience where my bio-father was a very absentee dad who started a whole new family. So ideally I agree. I would want to parent with their actual father but if they’re with him part time and me full time, the new spouse would definitely have to adopt my kids as their own for me to feel like it was worth marrying them, especially if we ended up having kids together as well. I also probably wouldn’t be getting re-married to someone younger than me by more than a year or two lol.

Even moreso Ideally, my kids would never need a step father to begin with. There’s a lot of different familial equations for sure.