I'm still getting used to thinking about autism as an identity to be proud of and not a developmental disorder. I mean, there is a wide spectrum but I think a lot of people who do not have autism are self-diagnosing or misdiagnosed because ~they are awkward~ and start affectionately calling themselves Aspies. Idk, I've worked with a lot of autistic kids and I have complicated thoughts.
It can be both, and sometimes for the same person. Just because something is difficult doesn't mean it isn't an integral part of you, or that that part of you isn't worthy of respect. Being autistic causes me problems, but so does being gay and being a woman.
As someone who was diagnosed and works with autistic people and other developmentally disabled people, I'd say it's both. Self-diagnosing is a complicated matter but coming into one's own with their diagnosis isn't something bad.
re.: self-dx, i personally won't give autistic poc and woc shit for it after dealing with my share of professionals who were like, "black people can't have autism", there is a reason adult women discover they are autistic very late in their lives.
he (because of course it was an old man) kept interrupting me whenever i wanted to explain myself and provide reasons (because i document all my shit in writing, i did a lot of research before deciding to seek helpand support in that area) and he kept saying "why do you need a label" and chuckling. he was a whole douchebag and my bf was there with me and even had trouble staying calm.
he sadly was not the last but the one that really disearthened me was a woman because i falsely though "oh she’s a woman, she'll get me" but lord i was wrong.
there’s way too much ignorance and misconceptions about poc/woc regarding disability/mental illness, i dont blame anyone for not wanting to deal with professionals.
I have to rely on self-diagnosis also, as every time I take a trip to my doctors I end up with a response stating that they refuse to diagnose adults 'as there will be no help available on the NHS.' I honestly think it's due to me being a woman.
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he sadly was not the last but the one that really disearthened me was a woman because i falsely though "oh she’s a woman, she'll get me" but lord i was wrong.
there’s way too much ignorance and misconceptions about poc/woc regarding disability/mental illness, i dont blame anyone for not wanting to deal with professionals.
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I'm sorry about your experiences.
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