I'm slightly surprised that no one has commented on this yet. O.o
I don't mind sharing with you and this could bring you inspiration anyways, so here I go: -He smiles. -He laughs. -Hopefully, he doesn't smoke (If he smokes, his breath would smell bad. :<)and isn't addicted to alcohol and anything dangerous or unhealthy. -He's open minded. He's not sexist or has discrimination in his blood. -He's understanding and cares for those around him. -He may not do well academically, but that's fine. It's important to work hard in life, and to live without regrets. I certainly wouldn't want my other half to be a coward. -I would admire him greatly if he was someone who did things for others, even if that caused people to misunderstand him and be unaware of his kind actions. E.g. Let's say his deceased father knew a female who has some psychological illness or something mentally, which caused her to believe that she and his father were in a relationship (even though they weren't). The woman thinks that he's the cause of his father's death or was the reason why his father was 'taken away from her.' She hates him even more for also believing that A) his mother took his father away from her and B) he just looks a lot like his father. She may slap him in public and cuss at him, until her face turns red with anger. But he still secretly pays for her healthcare, as she has no relatives. He donates to the women's shelter she resides in, or he even pays for her stay there. <-- People won't understand why he does this but he he has his own reasons. Perhaps, he's just kind. Perhaps he sympathizes with her. Perhaps, he considers his father when doing so. -He's reliable. -He's honest. -He's sincere. -He has commitment, believing in marriage. Well, simply settling down. -He's not impatient. If you're not ready, then you're just not ready. -I don't have to feel pressured, but rather, I can talk to him freely. I can share anything with him. -It'd be adorable if he has a shy personality, but I wouldn't want him to be shy about everything, especially on topics like sex or relationships. -I don't want him to just be there physically. He should be there emotionally, ready to hear what I have to say and give me advice or just know what to say. -It would be nice if he remembered anniversaries and bought me presents or gave me surprises. But of course, it's OK if he doesn't remember little things or celebrate things like, "It's been 100 days since we've been dating!" To be honest, I can't really see myself caring for the little things anyway... -He has a serious side and playful side. He's not just one thing. -Love. He just has to love me, or else it'll be painful.
Forgot to add: -Can take walks together. -Can go to beaches together and fool around. -Can make me laugh and smile, especially when I'm down. -Whether he's sad or happy, he tells me. -We stay in contact, but we don't need to be together 24/7. -He's loyal, just like me.
With that example that I provided, I forgot to add that what that woman doesn't know was that she has a fault there as well. Due to her illness, she's unaware of it.
I don't mind sharing with you and this could bring you inspiration anyways, so here I go:
-He smiles.
-He laughs.
-Hopefully, he doesn't smoke (If he smokes, his breath would smell bad. :<)and isn't addicted to alcohol and anything dangerous or unhealthy.
-He's open minded. He's not sexist or has discrimination in his blood. -He's understanding and cares for those around him.
-He may not do well academically, but that's fine. It's important to work hard in life, and to live without regrets. I certainly wouldn't want my other half to be a coward.
-I would admire him greatly if he was someone who did things for others, even if that caused people to misunderstand him and be unaware of his kind actions.
E.g. Let's say his deceased father knew a female who has some psychological illness or something mentally, which caused her to believe that she and his father were in a relationship (even though they weren't). The woman thinks that he's the cause of his father's death or was the reason why his father was 'taken away from her.' She hates him even more for also believing that A) his mother took his father away from her and B) he just looks a lot like his father. She may slap him in public and cuss at him, until her face turns red with anger. But he still secretly pays for her healthcare, as she has no relatives. He donates to the women's shelter she resides in, or he even pays for her stay there. <-- People won't understand why he does this but he he has his own reasons. Perhaps, he's just kind. Perhaps he sympathizes with her. Perhaps, he considers his father when doing so.
-He's reliable.
-He's honest.
-He's sincere.
-He has commitment, believing in marriage. Well, simply settling down.
-He's not impatient. If you're not ready, then you're just not ready.
-I don't have to feel pressured, but rather, I can talk to him freely. I can share anything with him.
-It'd be adorable if he has a shy personality, but I wouldn't want him to be shy about everything, especially on topics like sex or relationships.
-I don't want him to just be there physically. He should be there emotionally, ready to hear what I have to say and give me advice or just know what to say.
-It would be nice if he remembered anniversaries and bought me presents or gave me surprises. But of course, it's OK if he doesn't remember little things or celebrate things like, "It's been 100 days since we've been dating!" To be honest, I can't really see myself caring for the little things anyway...
-He has a serious side and playful side. He's not just one thing.
-Love. He just has to love me, or else it'll be painful.
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-Can take walks together.
-Can go to beaches together and fool around.
-Can make me laugh and smile, especially when I'm down.
-Whether he's sad or happy, he tells me.
-We stay in contact, but we don't need to be together 24/7.
-He's loyal, just like me.
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What kind of other half do you want? :D
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