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is it wrong to (still) have sex with the ex?
i don't think so.
here is my arguement: i think it is nothing short of perfect to have the comfort and security of your ex in sexual situations. "why," you ask. first of all, both parties (hopefully) know that the other is clean and for lack of a better word, safe, to have sex with. in addition to that, both people know the likes and dislikes of the other; therefor, the pair never have to worry about a bad sexual experience as many casual sex partners experience the first/second/etc. time. i mean, why start from scratch with someone you don't know & doesn't know you when you are perfectly content in having a mutual sexual relationship with someone who already knows everything about you? sure, the couple can't go on having sex forever if they plan on meeting and dating others, but for a short time...why not? it seems almost ignorant to refuse sex to the person who knoes you best, don't you think? i personally believe that ex-sex is helpful to a mature friendship..when both individuals are consenting adults, of course.
i don't really know what the point of this entry was. but, i do know that a healthy (in every sense of the word) sex life is important for every couple, friends or otherwise.
the end.
<3L
i don't think so.
here is my arguement: i think it is nothing short of perfect to have the comfort and security of your ex in sexual situations. "why," you ask. first of all, both parties (hopefully) know that the other is clean and for lack of a better word, safe, to have sex with. in addition to that, both people know the likes and dislikes of the other; therefor, the pair never have to worry about a bad sexual experience as many casual sex partners experience the first/second/etc. time. i mean, why start from scratch with someone you don't know & doesn't know you when you are perfectly content in having a mutual sexual relationship with someone who already knows everything about you? sure, the couple can't go on having sex forever if they plan on meeting and dating others, but for a short time...why not? it seems almost ignorant to refuse sex to the person who knoes you best, don't you think? i personally believe that ex-sex is helpful to a mature friendship..when both individuals are consenting adults, of course.
i don't really know what the point of this entry was. but, i do know that a healthy (in every sense of the word) sex life is important for every couple, friends or otherwise.
the end.
<3L