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[megaroni_]

I feel terrible for being so neglectful to this community. It was such a great idea, and I really want it to remain active! I really want to try and be more involved in this for benefit of all of you. So I figure why not kick it off with another anonymous post? It seemed so successful last time. I'm thinking this may turn into a monthly thing

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[anonymous]

So I had just started seeing this guy, who I really, really like, because he's actually fucking NICE and courteous and wonderful, blah blah blah, unlike anyone else. I guess I drunkenly told him one night that I wanted to wait to have sex, which I kind of don't remember saying but I can believe it just based on my past of having sex with people and then getting screwed over. He agreed with me so we decided to wait.

Well, of course four days later I couldn't handle it anymore and had sex with him. And now I feel horrible. I feel like I fucked it up, I know its just me being insecure, but I felt like he was being really weird afterwards, and I can't help but feel like its my fault... like I exposed how crazy I am and now he's turned off or something. I texted my best friend about it and all she had to say was "Yeah dude, I dunno." WTF? Thanks.

I just seriously hate these weird attachment issues or whatever it is I have with guys and I want it to be over with. Even if he's not weirded out, I know I'll just fuck it up later, and I almost regret even getting involved with him because I don't want to go through all of this shit AGAIN.

[anonymous]

TALK TO HIM. i swear to god. it works wonders. and if it doesnt, then you shouldnt be with him. you have to be able to talk to people who are close to you in your life.
i drunkenly had sex with the guy im going with right now the first night we REALLY talked. (we knew each other prior, but not well.) i felt like things were weird the next few days, so i told him i wanted to talk, and i told him everything i was feeling. and it turns out he was feeling the same way. neither of us wanted to rush into anything but being together like that felt so right. so we kept doing it. and now were away from each other for the summer (college) btu im going to see him next month (:
seriously just talk to him!

[anonymous]

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