how do you spell AAAAHHHh!h1!!!111
*tear*
ok, this LJ thing is nice now... someplace to get shit off my chest.
Yesterday I was talking to Cass and apparently she wants to kind of break up, kind of not... she wants to take a step back from bf/gf to just casually dating so we can get to know each other better.
She said something about not wanting to hurt me.
My response?
ok.
What I thought?
AAHHH!1!
I don't know, maybe I over think stuff too much, but let me go over what she said and I'm sure you'll come to the same conclusion.
the convo basically started with her asking me what I feel dating means. I told her being exclusive to the person. Then she basically agreed with that and moved on. Not 10 minutes later she finally says she wants to stop dating.
What am I supposed to think?!?!
I know she wants to take it slow, and I respect her for that, but she acts like she isn't attracted at all to me, which is really disconcerning.
I've been in a situation a couple years ago where a guy I knew thought he was my best friend where in reality he just annoyed the hell out of me. I don't want to put someone in that situation with me.
But now instead of taking it slow, IE hanging out with her a couple times a month, talking a lot on the phone and nothing along the lines of sex, which is totally cool and I'd be happy to take the time for her, she completely takes a pretty big step back and basically tells me were no longer bf/gf, but were still friends and can casually date.
THAT IS NOT FUCKING SLOW
That is breaking up and hanging out with a friend.
I've never been in a situation like this before and it makes me feel like she no longer wants to date me or is even slightly attracted to me. I can understand wanting to get to know the person before taking it any further, but why can't we do that while being exclusive? Why does she want to be able to date other people while we "get to know each other"
WHY DAMN YOU! WHY!
ug... I always do that, mask shit with comedy, I get it from my dads side...
This is really starting to get to me... Cassie is like everything I find in a perfect girl, but I don't know how much longer I can take these friggin mind games.
ok, this LJ thing is nice now... someplace to get shit off my chest.
Yesterday I was talking to Cass and apparently she wants to kind of break up, kind of not... she wants to take a step back from bf/gf to just casually dating so we can get to know each other better.
She said something about not wanting to hurt me.
My response?
ok.
What I thought?
AAHHH!1!
I don't know, maybe I over think stuff too much, but let me go over what she said and I'm sure you'll come to the same conclusion.
the convo basically started with her asking me what I feel dating means. I told her being exclusive to the person. Then she basically agreed with that and moved on. Not 10 minutes later she finally says she wants to stop dating.
What am I supposed to think?!?!
I know she wants to take it slow, and I respect her for that, but she acts like she isn't attracted at all to me, which is really disconcerning.
I've been in a situation a couple years ago where a guy I knew thought he was my best friend where in reality he just annoyed the hell out of me. I don't want to put someone in that situation with me.
But now instead of taking it slow, IE hanging out with her a couple times a month, talking a lot on the phone and nothing along the lines of sex, which is totally cool and I'd be happy to take the time for her, she completely takes a pretty big step back and basically tells me were no longer bf/gf, but were still friends and can casually date.
THAT IS NOT FUCKING SLOW
That is breaking up and hanging out with a friend.
I've never been in a situation like this before and it makes me feel like she no longer wants to date me or is even slightly attracted to me. I can understand wanting to get to know the person before taking it any further, but why can't we do that while being exclusive? Why does she want to be able to date other people while we "get to know each other"
WHY DAMN YOU! WHY!
ug... I always do that, mask shit with comedy, I get it from my dads side...
This is really starting to get to me... Cassie is like everything I find in a perfect girl, but I don't know how much longer I can take these friggin mind games.