the cost of love
somethings in life just take a little time to figure out. dont you hate how time really does take control over your life. before you know it, life has gone by you. i say we need to live each day as if it was our last. cause who knows when a big rock is gonna fall on your car.
gretchen is my girlfriend. i love her with all my heart. i finally realized what i need to do to be the best boyfriend i could be. i have to admit it took longer than it should of. and after all my crys, conversations, and frustration, it was a lot less confusing than i first imagined.
if i could give someone one word of advice for there whole life, it would be listen. i dont mean just listen. like we were taught in elementary school, 'active listing'. there are so many things you miss by listing to the first part of a sentence and not hearing the end. i know it sounds stupid, and i know it seems like comom sence. but trust me, in my case it is everything but. but after a few years, i think i finally grasp the reason why my relationships fail.
for once in my life i feel confident. i feel like i can take on anything. i feel like nothing can stop me now, and nothing can ruin my relationship.
life is good. life is great. learn to listen.
gretchen is my girlfriend. i love her with all my heart. i finally realized what i need to do to be the best boyfriend i could be. i have to admit it took longer than it should of. and after all my crys, conversations, and frustration, it was a lot less confusing than i first imagined.
if i could give someone one word of advice for there whole life, it would be listen. i dont mean just listen. like we were taught in elementary school, 'active listing'. there are so many things you miss by listing to the first part of a sentence and not hearing the end. i know it sounds stupid, and i know it seems like comom sence. but trust me, in my case it is everything but. but after a few years, i think i finally grasp the reason why my relationships fail.
for once in my life i feel confident. i feel like i can take on anything. i feel like nothing can stop me now, and nothing can ruin my relationship.
life is good. life is great. learn to listen.