loyalty clearly means nothing
From the first day I brought lauren to meet richard and he continued to try talking with her after the hooked up, I told him how much it bothered me. He ignored me. He friended her on facebook, he talked to her on the phone. He tried to tell me he knew things going on her in her life that i was maybe just not aware of yet. I told him again how much it bothered me and put strain on my friendship with him and with her. He ignored me yet again. Lauren and i weren't even really on speaking terms when he asked her to help plan italy and fucking invited her along! I told him i didn't want him talking to her anymore. *Now* apparently its an issue! Now i'm apparently putting limitations on his friendships. The friendship i told him from the start put a strain on my friendship with her and with him, I asked him from the first time they met to stop talking to her; that i didnt like them being friends and it upset me. He completely ignored me! He fucking invited her to italy when i wasn't even on speaking terms with her!
He got upset that people continued being friends with brittany when they broke up, yet brittany had been hanging out with the group for what? 7 months at that point, completely independently of richard. So at that point you can't ask them to stop talking to her. I ask him from the day he met her that i was not introducing them to form a friendship. I like my groups seperate. I like when i can rbing people around and they are casual aquaintences. He knew this. He knew how i felt about it. He ignored.
so fine, put up a huge arguement now that you want to talk with lauren, i hope she's worth it b/c you are seriously damaging our friendship. And HER! fuck her! She can't even make the time to talk to me, me who's suppose to be her best friend back then, she couldn't make time to talk to me but had all the time int he world to be friends with him. He has no idea how much added strain that added to my friendship with her and what was the final fuck you i dont want to talk anymore was when I knew they were on the phone together b/c he flipped over and told me--and she couldn't be bothered to EVER call me back once they hung up. Our friendship was already fucked up between lauren and i, but he didn't help it. I'm not asking him to stop talking to a good friend, like andrew or something, i asked him not to start trying to be firends with MY friend from the first day he met her. He ignored me. go fuck yourself, you have no loyalty.
Seriously thats the way i look at it, i look at it as no loyalty. Why should he even fucking care if they talk?! He says they rarely talk anyway--which i could play devils advocate and say well then why does it bother me, but fact of the matter is it still bothers me, it's more than she talks to me--and they certainly don't see each other to the best of my knowledge, so when did this amazing friendship spring up that he wants to jeopardize my friendship with him for his friendshp with lauren? And he's like it's not like i'm going to rub it in that i spoke with her. But it does! How does he not get this?! It makes me want to cry every time i heard him say he talked to lauren today or yea we were fb messeging or whatever, always knowing she couldn't be bothered to talk to me anymore but could talk to MY friends. It kills me that we dont talk. I was so happy when she texted me before italy and said we'd talk when i got home but she can't make the effort and i won't be the only one. And now i just want to flip out on her, why can you make the effort for him--a person you barely know and said was terrible to hook up with--but you can't make the effort for the person you used to call your best friend.
whatever, fuck them both. Be friends, be loyal to eachother. Just don't talk to me anymore.
He got upset that people continued being friends with brittany when they broke up, yet brittany had been hanging out with the group for what? 7 months at that point, completely independently of richard. So at that point you can't ask them to stop talking to her. I ask him from the day he met her that i was not introducing them to form a friendship. I like my groups seperate. I like when i can rbing people around and they are casual aquaintences. He knew this. He knew how i felt about it. He ignored.
so fine, put up a huge arguement now that you want to talk with lauren, i hope she's worth it b/c you are seriously damaging our friendship. And HER! fuck her! She can't even make the time to talk to me, me who's suppose to be her best friend back then, she couldn't make time to talk to me but had all the time int he world to be friends with him. He has no idea how much added strain that added to my friendship with her and what was the final fuck you i dont want to talk anymore was when I knew they were on the phone together b/c he flipped over and told me--and she couldn't be bothered to EVER call me back once they hung up. Our friendship was already fucked up between lauren and i, but he didn't help it. I'm not asking him to stop talking to a good friend, like andrew or something, i asked him not to start trying to be firends with MY friend from the first day he met her. He ignored me. go fuck yourself, you have no loyalty.
Seriously thats the way i look at it, i look at it as no loyalty. Why should he even fucking care if they talk?! He says they rarely talk anyway--which i could play devils advocate and say well then why does it bother me, but fact of the matter is it still bothers me, it's more than she talks to me--and they certainly don't see each other to the best of my knowledge, so when did this amazing friendship spring up that he wants to jeopardize my friendship with him for his friendshp with lauren? And he's like it's not like i'm going to rub it in that i spoke with her. But it does! How does he not get this?! It makes me want to cry every time i heard him say he talked to lauren today or yea we were fb messeging or whatever, always knowing she couldn't be bothered to talk to me anymore but could talk to MY friends. It kills me that we dont talk. I was so happy when she texted me before italy and said we'd talk when i got home but she can't make the effort and i won't be the only one. And now i just want to flip out on her, why can you make the effort for him--a person you barely know and said was terrible to hook up with--but you can't make the effort for the person you used to call your best friend.
whatever, fuck them both. Be friends, be loyal to eachother. Just don't talk to me anymore.