These other people on Yahoo sound soooo immature! You said you had posted to get out some of your feelings. Sounds fine to me. You have a right to post about what you'd like and to work out what's on your mind.
However, these people who decided to comment and say you're "obsessed" and then go on to make whole separate posts about you "not being able to take advice" is ridiculous! Sometimes, people just need to let out some feelings. They don't always want advice - they just want to feel listened to and understood. I don't know if that's how you were feeling when you posted but still... how immature for these people to sit around and judge you and leave you negative comments. Not to mention post about you several days after the fact - obviously, they have nothing better to do than to think about your life and how to badmouth you for several days. Ugh.
I want you to know that while I don't know you in person, I do understand from your posts here that you're simply dealing with a lot of feelings and trying to sort them out. I don't think you're obsessed or over-sensitive. You're working through a lot. And I'm always here to listen. *hugs*
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate it. I know we don't know each other, but you seem to know me so well! I am exactly like what you described--sometimes I just need to talk about my feelings. I am not always looking for advice--I just want someone to listen and be there for me. This was a huge issue for my ex & I, but it helped once we got to know each other better. It's just tough because some people can't JUST listen. They have to give you their opinion & then they get MAD when you don't follow their advice! Thanks for listening. :) If you ever come back to Chicago, I'd love to meet up. I think we'd get along well. And of course we'd have fun shopping. :)
However, these people who decided to comment and say you're "obsessed" and then go on to make whole separate posts about you "not being able to take advice" is ridiculous! Sometimes, people just need to let out some feelings. They don't always want advice - they just want to feel listened to and understood. I don't know if that's how you were feeling when you posted but still... how immature for these people to sit around and judge you and leave you negative comments. Not to mention post about you several days after the fact - obviously, they have nothing better to do than to think about your life and how to badmouth you for several days. Ugh.
I want you to know that while I don't know you in person, I do understand from your posts here that you're simply dealing with a lot of feelings and trying to sort them out. I don't think you're obsessed or over-sensitive. You're working through a lot. And I'm always here to listen. *hugs*
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