WTF?

Aug 30, 2011 20:46

So, the girl who friend-broke-up with me right before finals last year is now confused on what happened it seems. Apparently by "I am much too busy to ever spend time with you" [like I'm not also busy with things? I make time for friends.] and "You are a really hard person to get to know" [and apparently not worth the effort...] she thought she was just telling me that she couldn't be a good friend to me. Call me crazy, but I thought friends were supposed to want to spend time with you and get to know you better. To me, that doesn't sound like a friend at all. Just because she now feels guilty is not my problem. I made peace with it over the summer, but now she's making me all confused. I told her what I really thought - she is very young. She took that to mean immature/petty and then went into things she thought I did that was immature. I actually meant that she just doesn't have very good priorities based on lack of experience and obviously doesn't know what true friendship is about. Maybe she is afraid that people think she is immature and has a complex about it. Also, what she says is often at odds at what she does, which is another thing I don't like. But, whatever. Anyway, I'm doing my best to avoid her. Crazy person!

friendship crazy

Previous post Next post
Up