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Anna and I (after driving all the way to her house in Livonia to pick her and her obnoxious daughter up) go my sisters house to see if she is there...before we go to the police station to file a missing persons report. Its been over 48 hours at this point, no word from her.
I pull up. His truck is parked out front and noone seems to be home. There are some kids outside at the house next door - kids like 19 or so. So I ask them if they have seen anyone around today/yesterday. They tell me they saw the guy (Matt, her boyfriend) driving her car - he came by earlier alone. They said they saw him go in the back yard. They didn't see her with him though.
So I am like "Ok, if you see her, tell her to call her sister - and tell her to mow her fucking grass." Cuz its like 10 feet tall and shit.
I get back in my truck and go to the Redford Police Department. We go to the window to talk to the officer. He first tells us that we need to file the report in Livonia because that is where she was last seen. I ask him if they can send a patrol car out to the house periodically to check and she if she returns there / or if he does in her car. They say sure. I give him the address and he says "Thats Detroit jurisdiction." Fucking awesome. I am not going to Detroit. First of all, becuase they won't care anyway - second because I have already driven all over southeast Michigan and do not want to spend any more time then I have to in the car with this kid that won't shut up and keeps playing with my window - up and down, up and down, up and down...
So...off to Livonia. Get there, talk to the officer. Give her all the info.
(sorry, very long winded story)...
The officer asks for her number, we explain that she had her phone turned off so that Matt couldn't get in touch with her now that she has left him. Soooo...I give the officer her number and she calls it, just on a whim. It answers to voicemail. NO WAY! Her phone is back on. That bitch. So we call Matts and his is back on too. So I now feel like a total jack-ass. My sister "runs away" with her abusive controlling boyfriend and here I am wasting not only my time, but the officers as well. She knew that I was pissed, so she took it all very well. She was very nice about the whole thing. We finish up the details, pretty sure now that she is fine, but still...whatever.
We are driving away-barely out of the parking lot and Annas cell rings...Guess WHO?!
(This is after the officer left her messages telling her that we are there filing missing persons report and to please call because we are worried sick.)
*Bitch*Bitch*Bitch*
She gives Anna some bullshit story about how she and Matt went and got a hotel room for the last 2 days -one with no phone. (YEAH THE FUCK RIGHT!! I mean come on...you have 2 days to come up with at least a decent excuse and that was the best you could come up with?!) Anna says, "you sister is right here with me, you want to talk to her." Without skipping a beat, I said "I don't want to talk to her." Anna didn't know what to say to me. I was so fucking pissed. They made some small talk about my sister coming by to get her things from Anna's and they got off the phone. Fuck that stupid bitch. (I know this sounds a little harsh, but come on...put yourself in a dangerous situation, and then completely leave the people who love you and care about you hanging, wondering if you are even alive?!)
She has absolutely no regard for anyones feelings but her own - completely no idea what she does to the people who care about her.
There are payphones on almost every street corner. There are phones in hotel lobbies, at the front desk...she could have called collect for all I care. But how the fuck can she justify not telling anyone that she is ok. How can you leave with a man that you were afraid to even talk to about your relationship being over and disappear for days after saying that you would be right back?! Fuck. I could choke her right now.
I was very close to driving back to the police station and asking them to lock me up so I wouldn't find her and kill her myself. (raw humor)
I am done. I completely wash my hands of this girl. I fucking quit. Quote me on that all you want, and feel free to remind me should I ever forget what I said. Its over. I have no sister now as far as I am concerned. I don't need this in my life.
I want to just curl into the fetal position and cry...*sniff, sniff*
(then get up and break something)
I pull up. His truck is parked out front and noone seems to be home. There are some kids outside at the house next door - kids like 19 or so. So I ask them if they have seen anyone around today/yesterday. They tell me they saw the guy (Matt, her boyfriend) driving her car - he came by earlier alone. They said they saw him go in the back yard. They didn't see her with him though.
So I am like "Ok, if you see her, tell her to call her sister - and tell her to mow her fucking grass." Cuz its like 10 feet tall and shit.
I get back in my truck and go to the Redford Police Department. We go to the window to talk to the officer. He first tells us that we need to file the report in Livonia because that is where she was last seen. I ask him if they can send a patrol car out to the house periodically to check and she if she returns there / or if he does in her car. They say sure. I give him the address and he says "Thats Detroit jurisdiction." Fucking awesome. I am not going to Detroit. First of all, becuase they won't care anyway - second because I have already driven all over southeast Michigan and do not want to spend any more time then I have to in the car with this kid that won't shut up and keeps playing with my window - up and down, up and down, up and down...
So...off to Livonia. Get there, talk to the officer. Give her all the info.
(sorry, very long winded story)...
The officer asks for her number, we explain that she had her phone turned off so that Matt couldn't get in touch with her now that she has left him. Soooo...I give the officer her number and she calls it, just on a whim. It answers to voicemail. NO WAY! Her phone is back on. That bitch. So we call Matts and his is back on too. So I now feel like a total jack-ass. My sister "runs away" with her abusive controlling boyfriend and here I am wasting not only my time, but the officers as well. She knew that I was pissed, so she took it all very well. She was very nice about the whole thing. We finish up the details, pretty sure now that she is fine, but still...whatever.
We are driving away-barely out of the parking lot and Annas cell rings...Guess WHO?!
(This is after the officer left her messages telling her that we are there filing missing persons report and to please call because we are worried sick.)
*Bitch*Bitch*Bitch*
She gives Anna some bullshit story about how she and Matt went and got a hotel room for the last 2 days -one with no phone. (YEAH THE FUCK RIGHT!! I mean come on...you have 2 days to come up with at least a decent excuse and that was the best you could come up with?!) Anna says, "you sister is right here with me, you want to talk to her." Without skipping a beat, I said "I don't want to talk to her." Anna didn't know what to say to me. I was so fucking pissed. They made some small talk about my sister coming by to get her things from Anna's and they got off the phone. Fuck that stupid bitch. (I know this sounds a little harsh, but come on...put yourself in a dangerous situation, and then completely leave the people who love you and care about you hanging, wondering if you are even alive?!)
She has absolutely no regard for anyones feelings but her own - completely no idea what she does to the people who care about her.
There are payphones on almost every street corner. There are phones in hotel lobbies, at the front desk...she could have called collect for all I care. But how the fuck can she justify not telling anyone that she is ok. How can you leave with a man that you were afraid to even talk to about your relationship being over and disappear for days after saying that you would be right back?! Fuck. I could choke her right now.
I was very close to driving back to the police station and asking them to lock me up so I wouldn't find her and kill her myself. (raw humor)
I am done. I completely wash my hands of this girl. I fucking quit. Quote me on that all you want, and feel free to remind me should I ever forget what I said. Its over. I have no sister now as far as I am concerned. I don't need this in my life.
I want to just curl into the fetal position and cry...*sniff, sniff*
(then get up and break something)