alone?
It's funny how people have grown to judge you so much on first impression; the way you dress, the things you've done. Are there still people who see your emotions, see your feelings, see you personality?
Of course someone can easily give you words of comfort, tell you that they hope you feel better, tell you that they love you, tell you that they ( Read more... )
you say comforting words mean nothing. but How would you feel if you spilled your guts out and the other person says nothing? sorta like ignorance you can say. Personally i would take it that the person has no interest in what i'm saying and that i'm wasting their time...basiclaly it'd make me feel like shit. Obviously friends wouldn't want to do that...so they'd have to say something or another to say that they sympathize..they just have no friggen idea what to do....i mean i don't take comforting words seriously either..but it's better to know that they heard you..and that you can spill out instead of bottling up inside. I'd like to think that because you're letting yourself out..and trusting another person enough to spill out your emotions that you're...NOT being independant...because indepedant people depend on nobody and hence tend to keep things bottled up.
People don't always have something to say. You can't expect someone else to solve your problems for you, but it's fair to expect them to be your cheerleader. Not everbody have advice to give...and not all advice is worthy. And even when people do give you advice..the chances that u'll take the advice is..pretty slim..
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