I know how you feel, I cannot believe she would do such a thing... but she did. It's vile, cruel behaviour, but lets face it, I should have expected it from her after the emotional abuse I took from her over the years, but silly me... Should have known better. :/
Man, that's going too far, though. I mean, there's manipulating, but that's completely psychopathic. I'm so sorry, girl. I'm really good friends with another one of her friends, too, and she's going to be just gutted, too.
It is. At a scary level too. I get being mad at me and wanting me to pay for breaking it off etc, but to let this carry on with Emma? I do not understand it. Tashe would talk about her from time to time and from those conversations alone, I cannot fathom how she could do this to her! Me, I get, she obviously hates me (not feeling much love for her right now either!), make me pay (although still, wtf???) , but to let anyone else think it was true? That's a level of fucked-up-ed-ness I can't even begin to understand!
Do you think this is really to hurt you, though? Like, I'm not trying to be rude, and please know I'm not, but that seems rather self-centered to immediately think that unless you have seen something to make you think that. I thought you guys broke up a long time ago?
I absolutely agree re: Emma. She's a lovely girl and she does not and did not deserve someone to do that to her. Of course no one does, YOU DON'T. Tashe and Emma don't have the past the two of you did, though, and her willingness to make someone sort of on the periphery, while totally emotionally involved in their friendship, suffer that kind of pain is absolutely psychopathic.
I'm so glad you told me the truth about her and steered me right when she friended me. I'm indebted to you for that, because I sure as hell don't need that mess. This has got to be just so painful for you and I really hope you'll find a way to trust again.
Never feel like you can't be the voice of reason with me, I'm not going to jump down your throat for it. But no, we'd fallen out again a week and a half before she had supposedly killed herself. And the last over ten intagram posts (all woe is me, slit wrists etc) were for my benefit, so I can only think it was in part to hurt me, to make me sorry or some shit, and the email I just got from her, reiterated it was for me. That said though, why in the hell did she let Emma think it was real? That's what I'm stuck on. :(
I'm stunned, but honestly, after a few hours to get my head around it, I'm just angry she'd do such a thing in the first place. I feel sorry for her, really. In what world is something like this okay? Probably the same one that made her think forwarding my email to her account was a good idea (just got a forwarding conformation email saying she was trying to access my account). We're both well shot of her.
Oh my word. Well, yeah, that makes perfect sense. I don't even know what to say. I feel awful for you and Emma, but really, I feel bad for her kid. He shouldn't have to grow up with a mum like that. :(
I know, I worry about him too tbh. Not for the first time, I wonder what the future holds for that boy. It needs to be said, she does have her good points, but I've seen her ugly side far too many times and I hate to think he sees ANY of that. :(
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I absolutely agree re: Emma. She's a lovely girl and she does not and did not deserve someone to do that to her. Of course no one does, YOU DON'T. Tashe and Emma don't have the past the two of you did, though, and her willingness to make someone sort of on the periphery, while totally emotionally involved in their friendship, suffer that kind of pain is absolutely psychopathic.
I'm so glad you told me the truth about her and steered me right when she friended me. I'm indebted to you for that, because I sure as hell don't need that mess. This has got to be just so painful for you and I really hope you'll find a way to trust again.
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I'm stunned, but honestly, after a few hours to get my head around it, I'm just angry she'd do such a thing in the first place. I feel sorry for her, really. In what world is something like this okay? Probably the same one that made her think forwarding my email to her account was a good idea (just got a forwarding conformation email saying she was trying to access my account). We're both well shot of her.
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