Why is the weather matching my mood?
It was sunny two days ago, now it's raining. In tune, I'm becoming morose as this seeming crisis unfolds in front of me.
There's only three possibilities to this that I've identified.
-The best possible would be if the guy on myspace turned out to not be the guy from her past. I dunno, it could be, but this guy fits the profile perfectly.
-The next one (and imo the most likely) is that what happened between them actually wasn't what she said it was. This makes sense because of what appears to be a lively discourse between them (reinforced by the comment she made), the total illogic of that happening were it not consensual, and the way she turns down any of my efforts to get her to cut the ties with this "bad" guy. If this is the case, my next question is why she did it. I'm fine with the fact if she did lie, I have come clean about my own falsehood with her and so it would be quite crap for me to hold hers against her... I'd just want to know why. I don't want to break up with her, I like feeling loved for once, but the tenor of the vibes I'm getting says she's not totally happy, and the sudden reappearance of this guy only seems to support that. Also, she's been saying strange stuff recently, so... damn. I enjoyed it so much, but maybe she's finished with it. Whatever. If she's not happy, it needs to end, because... I'd rather see her happy.
-The third (and way out there unlikely) would be that she's just defying all logic and being nice to the guy who took advantage of her. Not likely, but it's a possible explanation, and so I can't discount it.
I don't know what to do! I want to bring it up and clear it up, but I have no idea on how to do that without looking like I'm mad at her (which I'm not) or seeming possessive, if say it was some random guy with the same name and attitude...
Any thoughts?
There's only three possibilities to this that I've identified.
-The best possible would be if the guy on myspace turned out to not be the guy from her past. I dunno, it could be, but this guy fits the profile perfectly.
-The next one (and imo the most likely) is that what happened between them actually wasn't what she said it was. This makes sense because of what appears to be a lively discourse between them (reinforced by the comment she made), the total illogic of that happening were it not consensual, and the way she turns down any of my efforts to get her to cut the ties with this "bad" guy. If this is the case, my next question is why she did it. I'm fine with the fact if she did lie, I have come clean about my own falsehood with her and so it would be quite crap for me to hold hers against her... I'd just want to know why. I don't want to break up with her, I like feeling loved for once, but the tenor of the vibes I'm getting says she's not totally happy, and the sudden reappearance of this guy only seems to support that. Also, she's been saying strange stuff recently, so... damn. I enjoyed it so much, but maybe she's finished with it. Whatever. If she's not happy, it needs to end, because... I'd rather see her happy.
-The third (and way out there unlikely) would be that she's just defying all logic and being nice to the guy who took advantage of her. Not likely, but it's a possible explanation, and so I can't discount it.
I don't know what to do! I want to bring it up and clear it up, but I have no idea on how to do that without looking like I'm mad at her (which I'm not) or seeming possessive, if say it was some random guy with the same name and attitude...
Any thoughts?