matt the poohead
matt wants to quit his job.... he's making awesome money, but he hates it, and it's not what he wants to do with his life.. which i get.. it can be hard decided what you wanna do and making it happen. but i've seen him go down this road, he gets bored with jobs easily, and stops going more and more... till he's just stopped workign all together.. then expects me to be around to borrown money form or to buy food for him.. i can't afford to do that. i told him today i won't be doing that for him if he quits. he needs to think about what he wants to do and do something about it.. take a course or something, and keep him job to support him until then. he said his work won't let him go part-time though. it's fulltime or nothign cause he's really good at his job and then want him to be a lifer.
man.. i struggled with the whole career thing too, but i stumbled into something.. its' like it daunts him too much to even look into anything... maybe this is shallow, but i'm 25.. i want to be in a somewhat mature relationship where i don't have to worry that my boyfriend has no job.. and no money.. or worry that one day he'll just get sick of his job and quit with no other prospects.. what if we were married, i couldn't pay all the bills myself.. i really hate that aspect about him.. i wish he'd just grow up and sto avoiding the fact that he is going to have to find a career.. he hates working.. and won't accept the fact that pretty much every normal person HAS to work.. we don't all like it, but it's a necessity.
aahhhhhhh i go through this like every 6-9-12 months with him..
man.. i struggled with the whole career thing too, but i stumbled into something.. its' like it daunts him too much to even look into anything... maybe this is shallow, but i'm 25.. i want to be in a somewhat mature relationship where i don't have to worry that my boyfriend has no job.. and no money.. or worry that one day he'll just get sick of his job and quit with no other prospects.. what if we were married, i couldn't pay all the bills myself.. i really hate that aspect about him.. i wish he'd just grow up and sto avoiding the fact that he is going to have to find a career.. he hates working.. and won't accept the fact that pretty much every normal person HAS to work.. we don't all like it, but it's a necessity.
aahhhhhhh i go through this like every 6-9-12 months with him..