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[nytel]

Ok, me and my friend are both majoring in astrophysics, and since we're in the same year we made our schedules the same. (I'm regretting this now, but whatever.) So anyways we had 3 assignments due today. We've had all of them for at least a week, and there has been plenty of time to work on them. I finished all of mine on the weekend, but I don't

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[lymiryc]

that would make me mad too. A real friend doesnt let friends be stupid. Let her earn her own grade. It sounds cold, harsh whathaveya but if you help she will never learn on her own and she will end up with a degree she didnt earn and you wont get any more money for earning hers too...lol

its her choice not to use her time. Sure it messes up plans you may have had together but it could be (probably completely unintentionally or maybe not) putting you in the best position to want to help her if its messing with YOUR fun.

dont be manipulated it wont do her any favors when you arent there to help her later.

*hugs* i dont mean to be nasty i just hate to see ppl get taken advantage of.

[nytel]

No, you're not being nasty, believe me.

Now it wouldn't bother me so much if she actually started her assignments more than one day before they were due, then if she seriously didn't get something I would have no problem trying to explain it to her.

Like my other friend and I had a calculus class together last semester, and two days before the assignments were due we would compare answers. If we didn't get the same thing then I'd write down what answer she got, she'd write down mine and then we'd go redo them and see if we were wrong. If it was something like that I wouldn't have any problem at all.

Also, I'm not even sure if that girl wants to be majoring in astrophysics too. I absolutely love what I'm taking in school, but I think that she just kind of picked the same thing because I was taking it.

The more I think about it, the more I realize I have major friend issues, because the homework thing isn't the only thing that bugs me about her. And now I feel like an ass again because I'm complaining. Grrrr.

[reiko_ctu]

I don't think you're doing them a favor by letting them see the answers... they'll never understand how to do it, and then they'll just bomb the test unless they actually do it themselves and understand it.